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Worrying is a normal part of the human experience — everyone experiences it from time to time. But left unchecked, it can have effects on both your physical and mental health.

But what exactly is worrying? Worry is defined as distress caused by something that you might possibly experience in the future. The object of worry could be anything from a presentation you have to give in 30 minutes to developing a serious health condition 20 years from now.

While there’s no way to completely rid yourself of these thoughts, it is possible to significantly reduce their negative effects.

Here are seven tips to keep in your back pocket for keeping your worries under control.

Practicing mindfulness meditation involves focusing your attention on the present moment. This can help tame racing thoughts. Clinical psychotherapist Kevon Owen explains that mindfulness meditation is “designed to take you out of your mind.”

The next time you are feeling overwhelmed, follow these steps:

  1. Find a quiet place where you can relax comfortably.
  2. Close your eyes and take a deep breath.
  3. Notice your thoughts without passing judgement on them.
  4. Gently return to your usual pattern of breathing.
  5. Continue letting your thoughts pass for 10 minutes while you sit comfortable with your eyes closed.

“It sounds like an oversimplification,” says Owen, “but increasing your oxygen levels lowers the physiological effects of anxiety on your body.”

In other words, your heart rate goes down, your muscles relax, and your mind slows down — all of which can aid in reducing worry.

Here’s a deep-breathing exercise to try the next time you find yourself worrying:

  1. Choose a comfortable place to sit or lie down and close your eyes.
  2. Breathe in through your nose, imagining a sense of calm filling your body.
  3. Slowly breathe out through your mouth, visualizing all of your worries and tensions leaving your body.
  4. Repeat this process as many times as you need.

Conjuring soothing images can be a powerful way to slow down a racing mind. It’s a powerful strategy to enhance your coping skills. Studies have shown that nature-based guided imagery can help trigger positive behavioral and physiological responses.

The next time you feel tense, try these steps to combat negative thoughts:

  1. Begin by sitting in a comfortable position or lying down.
  2. Take a few deep breaths and imagine yourself in a peaceful, natural setting, such as a forest or meadow.
  3. Use all of your senses to visualize the setting, paying special attention to the colors, smells, and sounds. Do this for several minutes.
  4. Count to three and slowly open your eyes.

When you’re worried, it’s normal to store tension in your muscles. A body scan meditation helps you bring your focus back to your physical being so you can start to release the tension you’re holding.

Start by directing your attention toward your scalp, bringing all of your attention to how it feels. Are you feeling any tension or tightness there? Continue scanning down your body, all the way to the tips of your toes.

Talking to someone who has dealt with your same worries or understands your situation can provide much-needed validation and support. One of the best ways to feel less alone is to share your concerns with friends who take the time to listen and understand what you are going through.

Rather than bottling up your worries, call a close friend and set up a coffee date. Let them know you just need a moment to vent or talk things through.

Keeping a record of your worries can help you analyze and process your feelings. Starting a worry journal can be as easy as grabbing a pen and jotting down a few pages before bed or whenever your mind becomes restless throughout the day.

Simply writing down your thoughts about a bothersome situation may allow you to look at them in a new light.

As you write down your concerns, here are a few questions to keep in mind:

  • What exactly are you worried about?
  • What are your feelings about the situation?
  • What’s the worst-case scenario?
  • Are there any concrete steps you can take to tackle the object of your worry?

You’ve probably heard it a million times, but exercise can have a big impact on your mental state. And it doesn’t have to involve a vigorous gym session or 10-mile hike. Even a 10-minute walk around the block can help calm a racing mind.

Worrying is a natural instinct protects you from threatening situations by making you more vigilant.

For example, let’s suppose that you worry about losing your job. In response to this worry, you might improve your performance, start networking for new opportunities, or build up your savings.

These are all healthy responses to concerns about your job security, says clinical psychologist Aimee Daramus, PsyD.

Anxiety, on the other hand, is unproductive, making you less functional.

In the scenario mentioned above, for example, you might instead become irrationally angry at work or start making impulsive decisions. You might lash out at a well-meaning coworker or abruptly quit your job without having a backup plan.

You might also experience powerful physiological symptoms, such as:

  • increased heart rate
  • sweating
  • muscle tension
  • lightheadedness

While it’s normal to worry from time to time, excessive worry and anxiety can take a toll on your health.

Consider seeking professional help if your worries or anxieties start to have a noticeable impact on your day-to-day life, including your:

  • eating habits
  • sleep quality
  • relationships with others
  • performance at work or school

To get help, you can start by talking to your primary healthcare provider. They can give you a referral to a therapist or other professional who specializes in dealing with excessive worrying. You can also try finding one on your own.

How to find a therapist

Finding a therapist can feel daunting, but it doesn’t have to be. Start by asking yourself a few basic questions:

  • What issues do you want to address? These can be specific or vague.
  • Are there any specific traits you’d like in a therapist? For example, are you more comfortable with someone who shares your gender?
  • How much can you realistically afford to spend per session? Do you want someone who offers sliding-scale prices or payment plans?
  • Where will therapy fit into your schedule? Do you need a therapist who can see you on a specific day of the week? Or someone who has nighttime sessions?

Next, start making a list of therapists in your area. If you live in the United States, head over the American Psychological Association’s psychologist locator.

Concerned about the cost? Our guide to affordable therapy can help.

Understanding that worry is a normal part of being human is the first step in diminishing its effects.

It’s okay to feel nervous now and again, but when your concerns become excessive or begin affecting your daily life, it may be time to seek professional help. Try to be kind to yourself during this process and remember to set aside a few moments in your day for self-care.