Domestic violence, sometimes referred to as interpersonal violence (IPV), directly affects millions of people in the United States every year. In fact, nearly 1 in 4 women, and 1 in 7 men, experience severe physical violence from an intimate partner at some point in their life, according to the
These estimates are likely low. Because of the pervasive social stigma associated with IPV, many individuals directly impacted by it are unlikely to report it, due to victim blaming, racism, homophobia, transphobia, and other related prejudices.
Research has, time and again, found correlations between certain events and holidays, and rates of domestic violence reports. One 11-year study that looked at almost 25,000 incidents of partner maltreatment saw significant spikes of reported IPV on Super Bowl Sunday. The figures were also higher on New Year's Day and Independence Day.
In 2015, the National Football League teamed up with the No More campaign to air an anti-domestic violence spot during the game. It featured a real call to 911 by a victim of IPV, who had to pretend she was ordering pizza when she was actually talking to a local police dispatcher.
This was a rare, and much needed, instance of violence in the home being presented as an issue that needs to be tackled on a national level. IPV is often portrayed as a private issue by the media and criminal justice system. In reality, such violence — which need not even be physical — creates ripple effects that extend to entire communities and beyond. As we look forward to kick-off on Super Bowl 50,
Intimate Partner Violence: Defining It
An intimate partner is anyone with whom a person has “a close personal relationship,” according to the
Intimate partner violence is a pattern of coercive or controlling behaviors. These may take any (or any combination) of the following forms:
- physical violence
- sexual violence, including rape, unwanted sexual contact, unwanted sexual experiences (like exposure to pornography), sexual harassment, and threats of sexual violence
- psychological aggression, which is the use of both verbal and nonverbal communication to exert control over another person, and/or the intent to harm them mentally or emotionally. This can include coercive control, by isolating them from friends and family, limiting their access to money, barring them from using birth control, or exploiting a vulnerability (such as threatening them with deportation)
Direct and Indirect Costs
When we think about how much domestic violence costs, we tend to think in terms of direct costs. These might include medical care, and the costs of policing, incarceration, and legal services.
But IPV also incurs a host of indirect costs. These are the long-term effects of violence that impact the victim’s quality of life, productivity, and opportunities. According to the World Health Organization (WHO), these might include psychological costs, lessened productivity, lost earnings, and other nonmonetary costs.
According to a 2004 study from the
That research relied on 1995 data, so in 2015 dollars, this number is likely to be much higher.
Globally, according to the Copenhagen Consensus Center and using 2013 data, the annual cost of IPV worldwide is $4.4 trillion, which is about 5.2 percent of global GDP. The researchers note that the actual figure is probably much higher, because of underreporting.
To understand that the effects of IPV extend beyond the home, we need look no further than the toll IPV takes in the workplace. Data from the National Violence Against Women Survey (NVAWS) published by the
That’s the equivalent of 32,114 full-time jobs. And IPV affects household work too, with an estimated additional 5.6 million days lost.
In addition to lost workdays, IPV makes it more difficult for victims to concentrate at work, which may further impact productivity. A national poll conducted by the Corporate Alliance to End Partner Violence (CAEPV) in 2005 found that 64 percent of IPV victims felt that their ability to work was at least partially the result of domestic violence.
The physical health costs incurred by IPV are both immediate and long term. Based on 2005 data, the
Treatment for IPV-related injuries is often ongoing, meaning that victims need to seek healthcare services multiple times. According to a national 2005 study, women who experience IPV-related injuries will need to visit the emergency room two times, see a doctor an average of 3.5 times, visit a dentist an average of 5.2 times, and make 19.7 visits to physical therapy.
Whether physical or psychological, IPV is traumatic. Data from the 1995
It is difficult to put a dollar amount to such visits given the complexity of the U.S. healthcare system, but estimates from a
Beyond the first year, IPV continues to rack up medical bills. The
The Costs to Children
IPV also directly affects children exposed to it, and in multiple ways. IPV and child abuse co-occur in 30 to 60 percent of U.S. cases, according to a 2006 report from the National Institute of Justice.
In 2006, UNICEF estimated that 275 million children around the world were exposed to violence in the home; that number has likely increased. Their findings suggest that children who are exposed to violence may have emotional or behavioral problems, be at greater risk of experiencing physical or sexual assault, and may be more likely to mimic abusive behaviors. (Note: Abuse is always a choice made by a perpetrator; not all children who witness abuse go on to perpetrate abuse.)
These findings underscore the fact that violence is not a private problem, but in fact a cycle that affects children, their peers, the workplace, and, by extension, all of us.
It is important to reiterate that the cost of violence is difficult to pin down for a variety of reasons, and the estimates given here are likely low. Taken in conjunction with the emotional and physical tolls on victims’ families, friends, and communities, the cost of IPV in the United States is a bill we simply cannot afford to pay.
How Can You Help Someone Affected by IPV?
If a friend or someone you care about is being abused by their partner, the following tips can make a huge difference:
- Talk to them. Let your friend know you care about them and are worried about their well-being. Your friend may deny being abused. Just let them know that you’re there for them.
- Avoid judgment. Trust what your friend says about their experience; many victims are afraid they won’t be believed. Understand that people who experience abuse may blame themselves for it or try to justify the abuse in other ways. Also understand that people experiencing abuse may love their abuser.
- Do NOT blame them. Abuse is never the victim’s fault, despite what their abuser might say. Let your friend know that it is not her fault; no one deserves to be abused.
- Do NOT tell them to leave. As difficult as it might be, your friend knows what is best for them. When victims leave their abuser, the risk of death
often increases; it may not be safe for your friend to leave, even though you think they should. Instead, empower them to make their own choices.
- Help them explore their options. Many victims feel alone and helpless, or feel it is unsafe to look up resources in their own home. Offer to look up hotlines with them or keep brochures for them.
Where Can I Go for Help?
Many resources exist for victims of abuse. If you are experiencing abuse, make sure it is safe for you to access these resources on your computer or phone.
- National Domestic Violence Hotline: resources for all IPV victims; 24-hour hotline at 1-800-799-7233, 1-800-787-3224 (TTY)
- Anti-Violence Project: specialized resources for LGBTQ and HIV-positive victims; 24-hour hotline at 212-714-1141
- Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network (RAINN): resources for abuse and sexual assault survivors; 24-hour hotline at 1-800-656-HOPE
- Office on Women’s Health: resources by state; helpline at 1-800-994-9662