In this relationship video Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal give you advice on how to have rough sex and how to deal with it.
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Tamsen: Hey, everybody, Matt and Tamsen here answering your questions about love from Ask mattandtamsen.com Matt: Najo. Najo: Hello. Today, we have a question from Jackie in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Jackie writes: My girlfriend likes it rough, really rough. I’d go for a slap on the ass now and then but she takes it overboard. I can’t bring myself to hither and I feel guilty of I do. What should I do Matt and Tamsen? Matt: Thank you, Najo. Well, honestly, that’s a rough situation. I mean, rough sex is it can be cool but you know what, you know an ambulance or any kind of hospital visits. So, I don’t think he’s giving it to her like she wants and I think she has little bit of a pathology when you agree. Tamsen: Yeah. I think she has some kind of issues. I don’t know if that’s really the kind of girl you wanna be with. Like, I don’t. Matt: Yeah, and it was gonna happen as I mentioned. Tamsen: You know w hat? That’s problematic. Matt: It’s a fine line. It’s a fine line. So, I mean, you’re gonna have your problems cause you are eventually gonna hurt her. I mean the heat of passion trying to do as much as possible? Tamsen: I would get away from that situation. Like everything tells me that’s not a good situation to be in no matter what. Matt: Don’t hit her harder than you normally would at all and you shouldn’t be hitting her. But, you know, slapping the ass every once in a while, it just spices things up but that is as far as we would go, right? Tamsen: All right. This has been Mat and Tamsen, until next time.