Anything that brings on feelings of stress is called a stressor. Today, we often face many stressors. Read on to find out how stress affects you and how you can gain control.
When you’re faced with stress, certain hormones (chemicals in your body) are released. These hormones trigger many changes in your body. For instance, your:
Heart may pound
Blood pressure may rise
Stomach may become tense
Muscles may tighten
Adapting to constant, rapid change.
Handling a major life event, such as getting married or moving to a new home. More than one of these events may happen at the same time. For instance, we may have to deal with a family illness while changing jobs.
Juggling many roles and responsibilities. We may be a spouse or a life partner, a parent, a friend, and an employee. We may also be caring for aging parents.
Going from one stressful situation to the next without taking time to relax.
Being overwhelmed by the technology designed to help us. Staying ahead of our pagers, cell phones, computers, E-mails, and fax machines can be hard to do.
Life was hectic enough even when Franklin D. Roosevelt was president. If only he could see today’s fast pace! He would notice people racing around with high-tech gadgets, while juggling their many daily tasks. Life has only continued to speed up. In fact, we may often feel as though we’re caught in a tornado. At times, our lives seem to be whirling out of control. When this happens, the competing demands of work, home, and family may seem more than we can handle.
If you’re often under stress, you need to learn to manage it well. Stress can affect your well-being. Over time, you may show some of these symptoms of being stressed:
Frequent colds or flu, headaches, trouble sleeping, muscle tension, skin problems, trouble with digestion
Poor concentration, forgetfulness, learning problems, frequent negative thoughts, speech problems
Anxiety, depression, anger, irritability, feelings of helplessness, a lack of purpose, relationship troubles
Eating poorly, driving recklessly, abusing alcohol or drugs, being accident prone, showing aggression