America's Love Experts Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal answer a viewer's question about a woman whose husband wants to watch her with another man.
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Matt: Hey everybody! This is Matt and Tamsen with ask YourTango answering your love questions. Tamsen: Okay, today’s love question comes from iglownow. He wants to watch me with another man…should I? He wants to watch me as we have sex and see my face from another point of view. He’s letting me decide if I want to choose the other guy or let him do the choosing. I just have to say, right of the ban, no matter what my husband says about this, if you're asking us if you should be with another guy, that is a decision that you're not too sure of yet you need to make. If you're not sure, you want to bring that into the relationship, I wouldn’t do it just yet. Matt: Wow! Its pretty intense, this question. Again, I think she is bringing up some good points. Its up to you to make that decision but if he is bringing this element into the relationship and you decide to, then you get to choose the guy. Tamsen: Absolutely. Matt: Alright, seriously, there's some ramifications to because here's what I'm scared of. Your guy might think that is a really big fantasy kind of thing and he actually has to be prepared. It sounds like, you know what you want to do. I mean, you're asking us but it sounds like you can be comfortable with either of the decision. So, he is the one that needs to be prepared for what's going to happen. Tamsen: Alright, this is Matt and Tamsen here answering your love, dating and relationship questions. And make sure to send them our way here at yourtango.com. Matt: Got a question you’d liked answered? Tamsen: Visit yourtango.com/questions.