Dear Regina, Even if I am hot for a guy I know I shouldn’t shag him on the first date, but what about the second? Not until you shredded the dudes nerves and is rolling on the floor declaring eternal love. Till then just chill, and make him beg for the slightest favor. I will see you next time darling! Adios! Oh by the way, counting dates—that’s for ding batch. You are a sophisticated woman.