Dan and Jenn, alongside guest Paul Carlson, give you advice on how to deal with your partner insisting on having a threesome to solve your sexual problems.
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Jennifer: Hey guys! Dan and Jennifer back here with our good friend, Paul Carlson sharing words of wisdom. If you guys haven’t seen any of Paul’s other videos, make sure to check back because you will learn something, I guarantee it even if you think you know everything already. And as always, thank you for the great comments you guys leave. We want to know what you think so make sure to leave a comment, rate the video, one star to five star, you know, we prefer five stars but we want your feedback. Dan: But to just keep it easy and simple, five star is keeping us simple, right? Less to think about. Five stars, subscribe, we’re all set. Paul: Works for me. Dan: Now leave a comment and get stuff. Jennifer: Yeah! And be nice, okay, don’t attack each other. Okay, let’s be nice. Dan: Constructive, something nice to say, right there. Jennifer: Okay, ready? This has something to do with communication issues. Speaking of being nice, this one’s a little different though. My significant other has recently asked me to think about adding in another person to our sex life, it’s the all threesome thing. Dan: Threesome. Jennifer: You think, but its not. Dan: Its just sounds like a threesome. Jennifer: Our sex life is our only sporadic at best. I don’t see adding another person in our future any time soon. I told him that he has to show some interest in me first to make sure I’m securing the relationship before bringing in a third person. I think you will both agree. And I’d like to find some ideas on how to approach him on these subjects in a manner where he doesn’t get defensive and blow up and then we can’t talk about it at all. I think we need to start with the fundamentals first and then add the fun stuff later. Please help me. Dan: Every guy’s fantasy. Jennifer: Well, have you talked to a guy about sex because you know guys egos gets so bruised if you have been remotely hint that they are not doing it perfectly. And you know, he’s wanting to bring in a third person but she says their sex life is sporadic already. Have you talked about this stuff? Dan: What you are thinking, our sex life sucks. What are you thinking, I’m bringing another person, what's wrong with you? Jennifer: We never have sex, you want to bring somebody else in? Dan: And which point is going, “Ah, help.” Jennifer: It is wrong, really quickly. Suggestions Paul. Dan: How does she bring this up? Paul: Well, if he is bringing it up and she says that their sex life is already sporadic, maybe he figures out it’s the only way he’ll get some. Jennifer: He’s trying to get some. Dan: You know, on the other hand we did another video about threesomes in terms of a therapy and the thing is that threesomes are okay for some people but for the vast majority of people, they’re not spiritually or emotionally mature enough to be able to handle that. They have enough trouble just working between the two of them and adding somebody else— Dan: I can’t believe you’re looking at that girl, that kind of stuff. If you have this kind of jealousy issues, most people do. Paul: And so maybe the way around that is to introduce it a—instead of introducing a different person into your sex life which could really complicate matters, you introduce a new way of doing it in role playing. Now for her if she has not been very interested in sex lately, what would interest? What kinds of shows does she like to watch on TV which she get off to meeting a strange attorney in a bar, if so, you role play. The guy comes in with a nice suit on, meets her in a bar and they pretend like they’re strangers and he pretends like he is an attorney and she pretends like she is a secretary or something like that and he tries picking her up and after dinner and drinks and stuff they go back to a hotel or a motel instead of home. And they role play or it might be that what turns her on is a construction worker. Jennifer: Or being arrested by an abrasive police officer, nothing personal there of course. Paul: But the point

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