Dan and Jenn discuss whether men who enjoy having sex with a strap on are necessarily gay.
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[Music Playing] Jennifer Hi, this question is from Steward in Georgia. Dear Dan and Jennifer: I really like it when my wife does me with the strap on. She likes it too. It feels really good, really intense orgasms. But I do not think I am gay. I think I would rather kiss a monkey than kiss another guy. I do not feel gay or bi, but I really like getting--- okay, let me say this again. Sorry, my tongue got tide--- I do not feel gay of bi, but I really like getting boned in the boodie by my wife. Does this make me little girly man? Dan He is having such a tough time with this. Jennifer Am I really gay but somehow, I just do not realize it. Is that even possible? Any sex is suggestions on how to make this feel even better. Dan Well, we are at it. [Music Playing] Dan: No! I swear that the level of homophobia, my men in general is insane. It really yes -- get over it! Seriously, it is so cool, they have fun. You guys have fun, you have a good time, you both enjoyed it, and it is awesome. It is great. No, you are not gay, if it really matters. No, you are not gay. You are not attracted to another man. You do not have fantasies about sexual encounters with other men thus, you are not gay. Jennifer Well, you want some monkey issue later. Dan The monkey -- you have trouble with. We do not go for the whole animal thing, okay? Away from the animals, stay out the animals. Jennifer Agree, agree Dan Yes, no animals! Jennifer Okay. So how do I make it feel better? First of all, think safety because you have to remember this is typically an out to hold, not an in hold so take all the precautions you know. Take it really slow, use lots of lube all that stuff. But, I am making it feel better than it already does. Maybe, try different kinds of lube. You know all those weird warming lubes and different textures and smells and aromas, and things like that. Also, you have to strap on, have you tried like plugs, anal beads, lots of those things that you can stick up there. But stay away from the animals, okay? That is like animal. Dan It is like the animals and no animals, and it is not cool. Jennifer And maybe, you would try about ride her. That can be good too. Dan Yes, all the things that work on the other side, many of them will work on the anal side just beware. I feel like first time to do all these, be careful when you do this with anal type videos. Jennifer: Then, you do to think the last too. Dan: Another perspective, okay, just to forward this a little bit. Jennifer: Outside the box Dan Outside the box, we are all back helping you bust that box over, right. Just step wide open that is what we do. Another thing to think about, maybe you guys can have--- you two---; you and your wife could have another girl to the mix. That could be fun. Jennifer If your relationship is secured enough to do that, and it sounds good to both of you. Dan Yes, or word for another couple, just a thought. And here is a more interesting---perhaps a more interesting one in line of what you are doing--- have you ever considered the whole bondage BDSM angle? You guys may enjoy that, just a thought. Jennifer Yes, cause give him the butt that is a kind of submissive thing. Dan It is and do not get freaked out by that but because you enjoy, just be one with that, it is okay. But emotionally, psychologically, this is a submissive thing. And if you like that, you may have fun with some of the BDSM stuff. So, if you want to check out, we have a lot of resources on BDSM. Jennifer My favorite web site Dan laughs at me but it is called the extremersstrain.com. They have everything! It is not just the BDSM site, they have BDSM stuff. They have every toy you can imagine. They have pay by the hour movies; they have everything, so go check it out at extremersstrains.com. Dan And we also have a lot of resources on the bondage stuff on our web site and that is DanandJennifer.com. Under the sec channel, we have a whole bondage channels so check that out. Jennifer Yes! And do

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