Here on Cherry TV we are big fans of masturbation. The better you know your body and the stimuli needed to climax, the easier it will be with a partner. Learn how a few of us reached orgasm during partner sex without ever having masturbated.
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Here, the panel list talks about reaching orgasms through intercourse. They're figuring out how to do it themselves. Female1: I was in my late 20s going into my 30s before I even like tried. Female2: But you were orgasmic? Female1: Yes. I started young having sex so my second partner, I actually had an orgasm with and I knew it was orgasm because my first partner, I didn’t have one. And I think it was more of–for me personally now and I can honestly say, I think it was an emotional orgasm. I liked him more. I felt safe. I trusted him. So I understand that now, like he came from an emotional place and then I was comfortable but then that being said, I got used to having them through sex and from myself. So I didn’t know what it was like, like please yourself, how do you do that? No, I need a guy. I need penetration and then when I realized, “No, you actually don’t just need penetration. If you learn your body, you can draw some things like that. But yeah, it was my second relationship that I had an orgasm and I realize, “Oh, my god. That’s how its suppose to be.” And then I got addicted. When it didn’t happen, I was like, “What's wrong with you?” Female2: I love that. Female3 Now, you Becky were able to reach orgasm pretty early on through masturbation and with a partner. Female2: With a partner actually. I also started masturbating after I have been having sex already. And I think sex is one of these things where there's all these different layers to it and when I first started having sex it was more about being with the guy and this intimacy and enjoying it and being satisfied in that way but not, definitely not realizing that there was some like actual sexual satisfaction that were suppose to be going on. Definitely not experiencing that but being close to someone in that way, I was satisfied by that. And then having sex with–maybe with my second or third, you know, partner/boyfriend and he pulled out a vibrator and that did it. Female3: Oh! Wow! Female2: He was a lot older than me. And once I realized that you know, once you have an orgasm there is no more guessing like, is–did I or did not? That was definitely clear that that was what that was and–but that was a clitoral orgasm so then that’s what I had for many years until I had like a G-spot/vaginal orgasm which is also is a whole other part. Female1: And you can have both at the same time. That puts me to sleep. Female2: That’s what I go for and that’s like what I'm going for every time now. And if that’s not happening, I'm like, “What's wrong with you?” But after having sex is when I started to explore masturbation on my own and I definitely think it helps.

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