In this relationship video Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal tell you how to tell your partner you have been cheating.
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Tamsen: Hey everybody, Matt and Tamsen here. Okay, today’s topic, if you cheat and you feel bad about it do you tells your partner and confesses all? I’ll say absolutely. Matt: I'm going to say absolutely not lie do you die do not let them know what happen. Tamsen: You should lie on your relationship? Matt: No, you should not lie in your relationship but I believe that you're the one that already did something terribly through the relationship. The reason that you want to tell them is to make yourself feel better and that just in a mission for yourself it’s only going to hurt the person, your partner and if they don’t know you did it and you know you never going to do it what is the point/ Tamsen: I think that you have—there this common, I mean this mutual trust, this mutual bond between the two of you, I mean I would—I feel like I want to tell you everything so I feel like if I did something I like that I would want to tell you so you would know that it didn’t come up ten years down the road. Matt: I'll take that risk, you do me a favor if you're going to cheat on me don’t ever tell me I'm going to be just fine. Tamsen: Well, if you cheat on me please let me know. Matt: Oh, okay. Tamsen: Text me. Matt: Okay, I'll just tell you right after I went leaving the hotel. Tamsen: I absolutely think you should tell I do. Matt: And I absolutely think you should not, I don’t understand the point of admitting this when your partner is most likely never going to find out and you are most likely never going to do it again tell me what is the point. Tamsen: All right to a lot of you have this question ask us about it so now we’re asking you, what do you think?