In this relationship video Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal talk about telling your partner how many people you've been with so far.
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Tamsen: Hey everybody, Matt and Tamsen here in AskMattAndTamsen.com answering your questions about love. Matt: Nigel. Nigel: Today, we have a question from Sarah in Burbank, California. Sarah writes, this guy that I’m crazy about asked me how many guys I’ve slept with. To be honest, there’s a lot like 30. I’m only 22 and I don’t think I can tell him. What’s a good answer? Tamsen: Alright, first of all you should not be telling anything, right. There’s no numbers, no numbers, on either side. Matt: And a lot of guys asked woman that question. Tamsen: Now, why did they ask that? Matt: Because they feel and they want to makes sure that you’re the best that you’ve ever had. Tamsen: So when we said zero, you’ll feel great? Matt: Well, that’s a big responsibility because you’re a virgin. We all wanted that. Tamsen: So if we can tell you, you feel okay? Matt: You know what anywhere between like— Tamsen: Two, that they were football players? Matt: No, that’s bad. Anywhere between like two and five is probably the number but as we have to say— Tamsen: Sorry, that’s not the number. Matt: And I agree. Do not tell him. It’s none of his business. You know what the answer is enough that I don’t have a rocky world. And that’s it. Tamsen: That's all you have to say. No numbers, no anything. Not five, not 30, not anything. And you know you got to sit down a slid down a little bit. You’re 22—what are you doing? Matt: I think it’s awesome—keep going girl. Tamsen: What are you doing? Matt: Wait listen, the one important thing about this is to make sure that you’re picking the right kind of guys because the guy is asking you that, he might be insecure that’s all I know. Tamsen: Yes, serious thing. Or trying to find out how easy you are. Alright, this is Matt and Tamsen, until next time. Matt: See you.