A discussion on faking orgasm during sex. Many are against it, but it may be the best option, for some, under particular circumstances.
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Have you faked it? Hear the women talk about their feelings on faking it. Participant: Anyone tell me the benefit in faking it, who wins? What's the point? Participant: Totally and down with the argument again speaking it, and I don’t now but I have been in relationships not where I like wants to be the perfect perky little sex machine hoe, you know, but where I was like in relationship with someone that I loved and I was like tired and I didn’t want to have to have the conversation of like, its not you, and sometimes it would be them and I was just like not ready to break up but like it was not happening. Participant: I can explain myself. Participant: For reasons of experience. Participant: But its not something that you ever want to do the first time with someone or when they're trying learn your body or anything. Participant: Yeah! I've done that and it’s a mistake to fake it in the beginning because then its like— Participant: Because they may never learn. Participant: Because then its like, what's wrong, its taking more than 5 minutes, what's wrong with you. Participant: I was like, I know what I know. Participant: I’m a hard girl to break off and so if I see my men sweating some bullets trying to give me a little some and he can’t its just not working and I love him then I will fake it. I don’t do it often but I will if he is like busting his hump to try to get me there. Participant: I understand. Participant: I’m not going to do it for anything for any – don’t get me wrong. Participant: I think having this much like longevity that you had, I’ve been having them for a couple of years you know. You want to be there and you should be there. Participant: You should be very proud of them. Participant: Because now like I will not—even now ever let you fake it because you better it bring. I mean, I get crazy bossy and – people have actually stepped out of the bed and been like. Participant: You know, that’s funny. Participant: I’m leaving, and I was like, “No, I’m sorry.” Like I really push it really far, I mean, because it’s just forever to start. Participant: When I get very close to orgasm, it’s like I get into the like no going back zone and if he change his rhythm— Participant: I’ve smacked heads before and its been like, “Lady.” Participant: You're tone of voice when you say, “don’t stop.” Participant: Oh my god, if ever you stop, I will swear to god I will kill you. Participant: I mean, a yes. Participant: I think I’ll feel better if I’m really not selling myself with somebody who wants to sleep with me. I feel like a lot better if you guys like— Participant: But the guys would be willing to be brave that. They're going to be really determined to help you out. Participant: I told, I'm good in bed because when I wasn’t having any orgasms, this model, open does not come with orgasm, every other feature, available, so I would enjoy everything and just never get off. I’m serious. I'm not like not knowing myself and you know fooling my self because this is really what it was. And it wasn’t for them, it was for me. So I'm like, change positions, go faster, do this, whoa, over the room because I wanted as much energy and excitement because I wasn’t getting that last little thing and I also didn’t really know what I was missing. I will never, have never and will never fake it except one time. It was sort of like a rock star and I just kind of thought like, this people are told everyday how amazing they are, its like I don’t want to be the one, no, you're not good at everything and you know I was like, yeah, no brief. Then I remembered when I faked it I was like, he looked at me and I went like this—good set men, good set.