I've liked this girl for a year. I told her how I feel and she didn't say no. But she didn't say yes either. What should I Do?
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[Music Playing] Dan: This question is from David in the California and he is wondering should I ask her out on a date? Tough questions! It says, Dear Dan and Jennifer: Hi! I like this girl for about a year. That is a long time. Last Friday, I told her how I felt and she did not say “no”. Well, that is always a good thing. Avoiding a no is always a fine art in love itself but that aside. Here is what she said “David, I think of you as a brother but I do not see why we cannot get to know each other better and I am not trying to raise your hope so up or anything, but I cannot promise you anything”. And then she gave me her phone number. You guys, we see each other for a year. You do not have her phone number? Not mind. Should I leave it as this for a while or should I make a move? [Music Playing] Jennifer: Gave her your phone number. Dan: So I am just looking at this opportunities knock and busted down your door and what you are waiting for? Okay. Jennifer: We got the number dude that is 9-10. Dan: When opportunity comes your way, you cannot be like you know I will see you, say mid next week maybe I will think about it. I do not know. He is like next, out, you lose. The door is open, wide open. She invited you to ask her out. So, what is one do? I want to ask her out. Jennifer: Yes, that is it exactly. Dan: Ask her out. Jennifer: Yes but here is the deal okay. When you ask her out, she already told that she thinks of you as her brother, do not act like her brother okay. Be flirty. You are obviously on a date, make her feel sexy not sisterly. Dan: Not like your best buddy okay? Make her feel like someone that you are sexually interested in. Jennifer: Yes. Do not leave room for error because it sounds just kind of where you have done. You try to be a buddy, buddy with her nice you thinks of you as a brother but if you like her for more than a brother, you need to let her know that. Dan: Yes, and if he gets go out and you act like her best girlfriend while you are out, you are going to be her best girlfriend, okay. You want to be her boyfriend? Act like a boyfriend. Jennifer: Step out and be the men. Dan: Yes. [Music Playing]