Basic tips and knowledge on sex toys, this video focus' mainly on sex toys that you can use with your partner.
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Angelica Le Minh: Okay. So we’ve talked a lot about the solo aspects of having sex toys. Sebastian Yeung: You know, this is a thing to remember when you're working with dildos and harnesses. Angelica Le Minh: How would you go about introducing a sex toy into your life? Sebastian Yeung: Into your partner? Angelica Le Minh: With your partner? Sebastian Yeung: With your partner? The first thing is, a sex toy will never replace a human being. It’s not the same thing. It will not love you. It will not give you affection. It will not wash the dishes. Angelica Le Minh: Or even it self. Sebastian Yeung: Exactly. Sex toys accentuate and add to what you already have. So if your partner is shy, one thing you could do is start by introducing a smaller toy, one that’s not going to be as intimidating as, you know, one of the big ones. Exactly! And using it on the big muscles of the body, so shoulders, back, use it as a massage tool and then once your partner is comfortable with that, then you move to the butt, legs, between the legs and then you can go a little bit further but start at a neutral zone. Angelica Le Minh: So do we want to spill any myths about sex toys? Sebastian Yeung: Well, some people think that once she use a sex toy, he can’t go back and that’s— Angelica Le Minh: To the regular? Sebastian Yeung: To the real thing. And its not true and really isn’t, I mean, you know, you'll run out of batteries eventually and what are you going to do? No, but it really isn’t, it’s not the same sensations at all and you're not going to feel love from a sex toy. You might love your sex toy but you won’t feel love from your sex toy. Angelica Le Minh: Right. Sebastian Yeung: And it’s not an exchange of ideas and communication and affection that you would have with a loving partner. So, what I tell everybody is, when you're reaching that stage of your relationship, then yes, sex toys are an amazing addition to what you already have. And a lot of people will discover that. Its not gong to replace anyone or anything. It’s just a little bit extra.