Matt and Tamsen offer advice on how you and your significant other can get through the holidays in one piece.
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Audra Lowe: Hi to you guys, were you sitting on you’re at your endless house right now? A lot of people are. There’s a lot of you guys that made the trek to celebrate the holidays together but we all know that sometimes things can get a little challenging and you know what I mean, so our relationship experts are here with some great advice to keep that festive happy, upbeat, positive feeling in today’s Ask Matt and Tamsen. Tamsen: Hey, everybody Matt and Tamsen here again, answering your questions about love, sex, dating and relationships. Okay, it’s the holiday so you have lots of festive questions. Matt: It surely is. What do we have today? Tamsen: Alright, “Dear Matt and Tamsen, my wife and I have committed to a ridiculous holiday in love visiting schedule. This always seems to happen this time of year. We usually get a new a lot of arguments which makes the traveling and the visiting even worst. Do you guys have any suggestions how to make this tolerable?” Matt: Buddy, I feel your pain. You don’t’ even know what I have to do on a week, Orlando, Tampa, Tampa, Orlando back and forth. I don’t know where I am. I am on the backseat. Tamsen: Be nice. Matt: Well, at the back seat. I’ve been on a lot of cars going to malls, eating a bad food. It’s terrible. Tamsen: First of all, the most important thing is make sure this can’t be undoing you. That’s key to trying last thing off. Man, I think that’s the way we do it. Matt: You need a lone time. Take a walk with your significant other, with your wife. Get out of the family nightmare for a while. Laugh about what’s going on. Don’t take anything seriously. It can be really tough for you to get away temporarily for a little bit of time. Tamsen: Yeah, and don’t choose sides also. There’s some kind of argument brewing which can always happen this time of year. Make sure you don’t choose sides. Be neutral and try to stay out of things just kind of an observer looking in. Matt: It‘s about thing to do because you really want your marriage to be in tact once the holidays are over. You know what I mean. Tamsen: And you’re heading home. Alright, these are Matt and Tamsen. If you have any questions be sure and send them our way, until next time. Audra Lowe: And if you guys have questions for Matt and Tamsen just email them at Ask M and T at BetterTV.com.