In this relationship video Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal talk about the place of porn in a monogamous relationship.
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Matt Titus: Sexually satisfying relationships something almost everyone is looking for in a long time relationship or a marriage. Tamsen Fadal: With that shows that more, more couples are turning into a variety of alternatives in order to get the spark alive. And one of those alternatives is porn. Matt Titus: Today we tackle the question just porn have a place in a relationship. Hey everybody Matt and Tamsen here again. Okay, a controversial topic to save the links right? Tamsen Fadal: I love controversy, yes. This porn have a place in a magnanimous relationship I mean this is something— Matt Titus: You know I say no. Tamsen Fadal: You say--why I say yes? And I’ll tell you why. Matt Titus: But it better within reason. Tamsen Fadal: Easy, easy. Anyway, here’s the thing. Every man out there—it’s really tough for us to think about sleeping with one woman for the rest of our lives. That’s a done thing fact that makes most men shaking their boots. Well, most mature man can get over and marry a beautiful woman like I have but everybody’s lack in. So how do you keep the passion going? How do you keep the fire alive? Matt Titus: Well, a lot of people are doing it no matter how feel that because there’s some mysterious, serious stands to back it up. Tamsen Fadal: The introduction of pornography in a relationship can make the relationship better as steps mentioned. 25% of total search engine request are porn related, 8% of all emails is porn related and 42% of couples who have been using porn as that sexual fire starter. Matt Titus: See I’m so shock by those—I’m almost 50% of couples I mean that is a lot, that is a lot. Tamsen Fadal: One woman for the rest of your life is really not that many couples. Matt Titus: But you have to set to some boundaries if that is what you’re going to do because it can’t be something where you’re doing it together and then you go off in your own and you do whatever you want because she’s a serious place for some infidelity to seem like that is okay. Tamsen Fadal: Some people believe it is the gateway for infidelity to begin. I think that if you’re too secure individuals and as step has mentioned you are watching it together and it’s a group thing that you guys do it together it can be safe. Matt Titus: A group thing? Tamsen Fadal: Well, I mean the two, a dryad thing dryad. Anyway, here’s something that’s really that bothers me actually about it. Now, I am a good looking guy, a pretty good shape I think my sexual technique is superior as you could probably know that because you’re my wife. Matt Titus: Yes of course. Tamsen Fadal: The porn stars out there we all know about them I find it sometimes it’s a little intimidating--woman’s feel like a female porn star and every guys is like male porn star if you know what I mean. Matt Titus: Alright so how do you keep it reasonable to where you’re not becoming obsess of it and it’s the only thing and then if somebody wants to stop watching the video then your relationship continuous and how do you do that? As we done together-- Tamsen Fadal: As we done together I think that you don’t do it too often either. Matt Titus: Yes, it can be all the time that’s crazy. Tamsen Fadal: Honestly and I think there are some boundary set. Matt Titus: Absolutely. Tamsen Fadal: And that will make it successful. Again, the one woman for everything--this can help the relationship along and it’s a done thing fact I mean one woman forever—I think as I said that, did I say a lot? I’ve got to stop. Matt Titus: I have to stop. Tamsen Fadal: The only thing is—I think that it really is a wonderful element to make the relationship interesting, you keep it a little bit mysterious again but monitor. Here’s another thing that bothers me about it, there’s two sides. Is it okay with you that your partner is actually becoming sexually arouse by another person’s body? Matt Titus: Yes, tell about that. Tamsen Fadal: And that sexual technique that they have. Matt Titus: So maybe I’ve switch your v

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