Phone sex is a great way to connect with our partner when he or she is away. But when we're new at it, it can feel quite awkward. The same is true with text and email. It's fun to send sexy messages. Learn what to say without sounding silly and fo...
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Juicy Talk for Women Cherry TV.com Cherry Dish Hear the ladies discuss dirty talk via email, text and IM. Female 1: What advice would you give to somebody who is like, “My boyfriend’s away I do want to have phone sex but I feel so awkward.” Female 2: Wine helps, relax. It’s like saying getting to a point where you're okay, maybe taking a bath or anything to relax you and always have a vibrator handy, you know. Because when you're playing with yourself, you're bound to go a little further. Female 3: I think it’s a lot about visualization. Like you're picturing yourself there and it’s the same kind of thing that you would say, for me like, talking about, “Oh! I’m touching you here. And oh, my god you feel so good.” It’s like a shared fantasy so you have to like build that fantasy together. Female 4: To book the image of their body and their flesh if it’s a problem, so evoking the image of their member or you know how they feel or their hair around their skin or— Female 2: Your past sexual time. Female 4: Or pastime exactly. Female 2: Like remember that time at the hotel. Female 5: It’s nice to reminisce. Female 4: Reminiscing, out of fun bring out naughty in some people for sure. Female 5: Yes and you can tell them what you're going to do to them when you see them. I can’t wait to see you on Thanksgiving weekend or whatever you know. And I’m–when I see you, I’m going to do this, this and this. Female 4: Or tell them what you were thinking about the last time you masturbated, if it had to do with them of course. Or be like it did. Female 3: It’s all good idea, yes. Female 1: Good advice, and then with like text messaging and video. Now what about with video chat, any kind of little tipies? Female 4: I think that’s a good way to start if you're afraid of doing it in person actually. It’s kind of a way to sort of breach–that you're not actually there, but you are there. I don’t know, it’s–you don’t have to be quite as dirty to visualizations, you don’t have to quite talk as much and it can be silent. And there is an interesting case when I was doing it and the light and the light blew out in my room, the other person was in so then it was just the darkest and they were speaking but they could see me and it was kind of like–it was kind of fun, interesting. Female 1: The light blew. Female 5: I am not technically in debt enough to do any of these. I just–you know, I mail people my panties. I go to the post office, I’d still– Female 2: I’m picking my mail. What I do with text messaging is I start with like, “Want to play a game?” And then I get a yes or a no back and continue on. You know, like, “Meet me here, wear this.” Like it’s a good way to like get it started and get them saying yes, yes, yes and no nos. Female 3: I like–the not like a back and forth text message thing. I like to send someone like a dirty text message at an inappropriate time of the day. Like when I know we’re at work. You know like, “I’m picturing you inside me right now,” you know or something like that. Female 2: Or text pictures, and then your phone get stolen. Female 4: I’ve asked people to go to the bathroom and get themselves hard or wet and send me picture, in the middle of the day. Female 3: Nice, yes that’s fun for me. Female 4: And it’s fun, yes its fun when we get it, its fun for them all. Female 6: G chat is great too. Except, well G chat is the IM service within Gmail, so everyone that’s at work usually has access to G chat, so you can send a dirty IM and then are they like, “Boss is around” or they’re like, so but there’s like definitely an issue of risk. Female 2: But how about, because we have all this technology, is it too much? And now we’re leaving nothing to like fantasize about because it’s all right there with messaging and whatnot? Female 4: I think to make people more intimate, these little things instead of just having interactions in the bedroom when they’re home from work. They can keep the fire candling durin

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