America's Love Experts Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal answer a husband whose wife won't tell him about her fantasies.
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Matt: Hey everybody! This is Matt and Tamsen with ask YourTango answering your love questions. Tamsen: Okay, question today, why doesn’t my wife tell me her fantasies? I’ve hinted, asked, begged to try tell me and she said, she doesn’t have any. Well, maybe she doesn’t. Matt: What? Of course she has fantasies. I can’t just imagine because for your mind, we’re making out, I mean, I hope it’s me, but yes, she has fantasies. She is a little uncomfortable telling you this. Tamsen: She might not have fantasies, no offense. Matt: Does she have a brain, if she has a brain, she has fantasies. Tamsen: Most women have other things on their minds. Matt: The woman has fantasies and she is not feeling secure enough to tell you which is okay. So, I mean, just—how about this, why don’t you just pretend that she does have fantasies and you’re the focus of it. Is that for you? I’m like that because she probably does. Tamsen: I have fantasies and your the focus of them all. Matt: See, I'm happy. I'm okay, I'm ready to move on now. You should do the same. Tamsen: Okay! This is the Matt and Tamsen for yourtango.com. Matt: Got a question you’d like answered? Tamsen: Visit yourtango.com/questions.