Question: My best friend’s girlfriend has feelings for me, and my best friend knows it but still loves her anyway but I fear that her liking me Is destroying their relationship because there fighting all the time. I don't want them to break up bec...
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Jennifer: Okay, here’s another one minute Q and A. Question, my best friend’s girlfriend has feelings for me and my best friend knows it but he loves her anyway—but I fear that her liking me is destroying their relationship because they’re fighting all the time. I don’t want them to break up because of me. They make a perfect couple. I need your help what should I do? Dan: Well, okay there’s nothing that you can do about how another person feels about you. Okay. But you know what, if this is affecting all of your relations or it gets effect on your relationship with your friend, her relationship about him, it’s like—we get three something going on. Jennifer: Cluster. Dan: Cluster, cluster, I want you guys complete that. Anyway, so I think it’s time for a heart to heart. You guys all sit out, all three of you and lay it all out, otherwise don’t talk onto somebody’s back and it feels all weird. Jennifer: No, together. Dan: Stay there heart to heart and talk about it and you know what she’s got to make a choice here. Jennifer: Well and also he has to make a choice because what he didn’t say and the question was, do you have feelings for her? Okay, if you have feelings for her then it really gets messed up. You have to decide which relationship is more important to you and pursue that relationship at the expense of the other one because if you can’t do this cluster thing, everybody’s going to have a crappy relationship.

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