Hi, this is Guinevere Kramer and I am here with some advice on Blending Families, what an adventure this can be. Remember, you can pick your friends, but not your family or his family. Rule number one, have respect, and remember that both you and the family love this person and if you want to continue having a great relationship, you got to work together. And the relationship may take time to grow, it can take any where from a year, to two years, even up to five years to really get that bond. But, once you do, it will be worth it. Just remember patience, love, respect and you are guaranteeing to have a lifetime of happiness together with his or her family and yourself.