Sometimes it is not easy reaching orgasm. How to separate the physical and the emotional is often difficult. The Cherry TV women provide advice on figuring out the factors that effect sexual satisfaction whether it's one's partner, one's mindset, ...
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In this episode, the women talk about how they feel when they don’t reach orgasm with their partner. Female 1: I used to say all the time to them that I was, its okay, its not about the finish line, its about the race, you know–every time I have sex, I'm not sure I would have the same attitude. I'm not sure if that was just like, its okay honey, it’s not you, it’s me, you know. So I don’t know. Female 2: I'm pissed if don’t come doing it. Female 3: Do you actually like get mad and like to stamp around in purpose? Female 2: No, I get indignant and I usually masturbate like afterwards and I don’t always–occasionally but not usually, I usually just take care of myself that I do feel a little indignant, yeah. Because the risks are so huge, the risks are so huge to get an orgasm out of it. Female 4: Are you feeling that way because you feel like he hasn’t hard tried hard enough? Female 2: It depends on the guy occasionally. I feel like–my ex, its was frustrating because he took a long time, I felt like the gender stuff was reversed in some ways, it was like the grand baton death march to his orgasm, you know and even if it wasn’t going to happen for me, I would just be like–alright, you know, come on. And then I would feel mad. I wouldn’t usually like express it that way to him, but it was– Female 1: At this point in like a loving relationship, I feel like if I don’t come, its usually because I’m thinking about something else or I ate too much at dinner like I just got over my periods and my hormones are like down here but then again now I can always get off touching myself. So I will just do that if I'm not orgasm. Female 5: But it depends, if I have been kind of anticipating, you know, I mean, like you know you're going to see him tonight and you guys are like, you know, looking hot and oh, here we go, yes, yes and then doesn’t happen its like, gosh, like I do, I’m very, very disappointed because that–you know, I was expecting it. And you know, okay, afterwards, he might, you know go down or he might do this or I might do that. But if I wanted it, you know, via intercourse, I've wanted that type of orgasm, I didn’t get it, I don’t like that. Female 4: And in those instances, where do you kind of thinking it–why didn’t I come, was it you, was it him, was it just the chemistry that night? Female 5: You know, sometimes it’s the anticipation, it’s the expectation that I think sometimes, I like, you know, recently, the other actually, it was like, very much like didn’t know that we were going to go there and then we did and that was like amazing. So I think, sometimes it’s the anticipation, it’s the thinking about it too much in advance that makes you kind of maybe expecting like you know fireworks and really, you just get like you know a match.

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