America's Love Experts Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal answer a question about a husband who was seeing someone while the couple was separated.
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Matt Titus: Hey everybody, Matt and Tamsen here with Ask Your Tango answering your love questions. Tamsen Fadal: Okay. Today’s question, “What do you do with a cheating spouse? My estranged spouse had an affair with another woman and now a child is involved. What should be the recourse now?” You know what I think, if your spouse is still cheating, obviously you should not be with him. I mean, that’s the only thing you can do. But if this is in the past, you’re going to have to leave it in the past if you’re going to get back together. And I see your Love Brief is “tough love, revenge, forgiveness” so— Matt Titus: It’s not a question of any of them. Actually, it has nothing to do with you because he wasn’t—gathered with you when this situation happened. He’s just with you now and there is a past situation. So, you knew that getting back with him or being involved with him. So, I think it’s sort of like towards the forgiveness but you can’t take it personally because you weren’t with him. So again, let it go. Let him deal with it on his own. It has nothing to do with you and try not to let it affect your current relationship with him. Tamsen Fadal: All right. This is Matt and Tamsen with yourtango.com. Matt Titus: Got a question you like answered? Tamsen Fadal: Visit yourtango.com/questions.