My husband and I have been married for 10 years. I'm eager to incorporate some fantasy into the bedroom. Where do I begin? Our experts answer.
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“My husband and I have been married for ten years. I’m eager to incorporate some fantasy into the bedroom. Where do I begin?” Showing sexual fantasies can be intimidating. If I had these, they'd be shaken. If you're new to this, renting a movie, the place to your fantasy can help break the ice. Want to bring your white knight fantasy to bed? Watching the prince’s bride together might help you segway into playing the damsel in distress. If you're nervous about verbalizing your desires, know this. A successful trip down fantasy lane will bring you closer to your partner and talking about fantasies can be almost as fun as acting them out. So that elaborate vampire fantasy you have, share it. Whatever you do, don’t squelch it. Experts say bearing fantasies is unhealthy. But remember, don’t be a bird brain and share every sexy thought that passes through your mind. Have a filter. Letting your partner in and out of fantasy should make you both feel sexy not uncomfortable. Got a question? Ask it now at yourtango.com/questions.