The LoveFeed discusses spicing up your sex life.
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Let’s talk about sex baby! Let’s talk about you and me! If only those conversations came with a great beat, no pun intended. So short of donning a spandex unitard and hiring a DJ spinderella, how do you talk about introducing new and unusual acts into your sex life? On YourTango.com sex therapist Erika Pluhar points to two key ingredients, honesty and respect. Advising to not shame your partner no matter what he asks. Same is making faces in the bedroom in the hate of the moment. Alex Caroline Robboy, sex therapist and creator of howtohavegoodsex.com, counsels never say never even if you're initially against something. After all, someday you may want to play Sarah Palin in the news. And remember, if something seems scary, you can always take it down the notch. Not crazy about sex with the lights blazing. Start out using a few candles, take things one step at a time especially if you're taking a step from an eight inch high dominatrix heels. Lastly, less things get out of control which you agreed on.