On Cherry TV we discuss the benefits of masturbation. Climaxing alone aids our ability to orgasm with a partner. Yet, some of us become so comfortable climaxing during masturbation that it's overwhelming doing it with a partner.
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Juicy Talk for Women Cherry TV.com Cherry Dish In this episode, the benefits of masturbation are discussed. Female 1: I like orgasming on my own because it can be as ugly as I want it to be. When I–not that I try and look pretty when I orgasm with a partner but I do make some really scary faces. Female 2: Well yes, that’s one thing too, that I–I didn’t actually really, start understanding like the different–the variance in orgasms until, you know having sex with women, having women make–you know having women come and then seeing their physicality of orgasm, made me more comfortable with mine. And made me be like, “Oh, its okay that I’m you know, convulsing out of control” or whatever you know and like you know your body shake. Well, my body shakes and there’s all sorts of different–you know noises and bodily things that happen and I think looking back too I think that I wasn’t comfortable with that in the past. And especially you know, being with the partner versus masturbating, you're thinking about the partner, you're think about their satisfaction, you're thinking about their reaction, you're thinking about you know your interaction and when that to me was–that makes it so much more complicated for me to actually orgasm. Because I’m–it’s harder to just be with my body and understand what's happening in my body and feel comfortable with my body because I’m thinking about the other person. When I was like, “Okay, I'm going to masturbate to figure out how to orgasm,” I was like, “I don’t know how to masturbate.” I was like, “I don’t know, what the hell?” I was like, “I don’t want to do this,” it felt like, like annoying and boring and like, you know what’s the point and– Female 3: I think a lot of women are raised in a society thinking you know like our birth canal is like the way to orgasm and like that’s how we should be masturbating when it’s like, you know. Female 4: I didn’t start, I mean like, penetrating myself, like fingering myself in that way until like only recently in the past like 2 or 3 years may be and I mean I’ve been masturbating since I was a kid as I mentioned. And like I only–kind of was able to do that when I had more like situations with male partners where–that they were able to–I was able to reach orgasm either through sex or through fingering with penetration. And only then was I able to be like, “I'm going to do this to myself.” Because before I was really like, strictly clitoral and like, yes like I think. Female 2: The first time I had an orgasm was with a really strong vibrator and it was just like concentrating on the clitoris and it was–it’s funny because I think, you know, it was in my mid 20s. So like–and when I think about that situation and describe that situation in the same way that some people described their first time having sex and it just being you know, like haphazard and didn’t know what was going on and you know just trying out things and whatever. And that’s really–it was like I lost my virginity to myself. It was awkward. It was very awkward. Juicy Talk for Women Cherry TV.com

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