In this episode the Cherry team goes beyond manual stimulation and discusses different ways to handle a penis. Here they offer tips and advice on various methods to arouse him.
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Ever heard of Lingham massage? You’ll be glad you did. Female 1: Well number one, right, for anything you're doing with the genitalia, there needs to be some kind of lubricant involved whether it’s with your hands or your mouth. I'm not talking about lube, I'm talking about like it can be saliva or something but always the wetter the better. If you're touching a penis you don’t want to leave him with a chafed penis, period because there's nothing less sexy than a flaky chafed penis, period. I think that’s just the major role, the wetter the better. Female 2: Yeah! Like you said, then it could be almost too good because I've been in that situation where the wetter the better and then its over and then there's no more, so sometimes, I don’t know, I think sometimes it being dry but not like a rough–not like a -- hand job but I think you can touch another person whether its you know, a man or a woman and not have it be completely soaking wet if you're not looking to achieve orgasm. If you're just looking to maybe touch them for a few minutes and not have it, “Uh, explode.” Female 1: One thing I was doing that I love that my last lover request quite often is called the Lingham massage. Its basically penis massage and I tell people that, “Oh, a hand job and it’s not a hand job.” Its basically like, you know, you're not choking the chicken, you're like petting the chicken and giving the chicken the best day of its life. It’s like you're just massaging the penis without any intention of giving the person an orgasm, and that’s so rare and you make the man lie down on his back which most men never do that, right? Totally naked, lie down on their back, it’s a very vulnerable feminine position to be in and then you basically just give him a massage like you're having– Female 3: Does he have an orgasm now at the end of this massage? Female 1: Whoa! Occasionally, like it will just happen right and they have really no control over it in a sense but normally it’s just the hottest best feeling in the world according to–and its rare that you–you know, go about touching the male genitalia without the intention of giving the person an orgasm. So removing that from the equation and just touching it and just–how can I make this feel good, you know like doing the juicer and polishing the helmet and a few other things. I'm not doing it like, yank, yank, yank, like a hand job quickie but just really massaging. Female 4: I’ve heard it’s like a kneading-massaging? Female 1: A lot of times women touch penises like they're touching wet paint or something like I have to be very careful, it isn’t really easy the way men touch their own penises. It’s not that dainty. Female 5: The first time I watch a guy jacking off I was like, “Oh, my god, what are you doing it?” I was so much more–what's that layer of–don’t rip it off, and I–and then it was fine I was like, I started doing things a little differently around there.
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