Question: "Help! My boyfriend is a terrible kisser! How can I make him better without hurting his feelings?" Anna, Phoenix
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Help! My boyfriend is a terrible kisser. How can I make him better without hurting his feelings? Excellent question Anna. As a pair of lips, I’m exceptionally qualified to dish about the kiss. The tongue gets all the glory but take it from someone who knows, the lips are the most important kissing ingredient. The first thing to know is that if you make a bad kisser feel so conscious, they’ll never improve. So when you first lock lips, you should indulge with the smoocher’s lame brain technique. It probably involves a lot of tongue. Then right before the monotony becomes a turn off, go for a lip. Once the focus if off the tongue, you have a ton of options. You can lightly tag their lip yours. You can switch form top lip top bottom. The trick is to show them possibilities without being pushy. As for the tongue, let her back in after you’ve played with the lips a bit. Good luck Anna and good kissing. Got a question, send it to StillLife@yourtango.com.