Dan and Jenn talk about the problem of a prolonged erection with no orgasm, and how to deal with it.
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[Music Playing] AskDanAndJennifer.com Your Questions Answered on Dating, Relationships, Love and Sex! Today’s Question: How Do I Convince My Wife She’s Doing Nothing Wrong? Jennifer: Hi, this question is from Michael in Florida. Dear Dan and Jennifer, I am on medication it does not have allow me to have an orgasm. It does not interfere with my ability to maintain in erection. Sometimes it waits this long. The fact that do not have an always orgasm upsets my wife. I have told her it is the medication and not her but she think, she is doing something wrong. [Music Playing] So, What if I Cannot Have an Orgasm? Dan: Well, you know what they see on TV if the erection lasts more than four hours consult your physician immediately. Okay, a fancy drug add at the side. Choose it. Are certain it is not the medication, or are you certain it is the medication, you just have no idea. So, go you really should see your doctor and ask. Why are unable to orgasm and why are you not maintaining an erection long that is desirable. Jennifer: Yes, that is a little question of that, definitely. Dan: Yes, you know if my car has have enough problem I go check ask the mechanic. Jennifer: Yes, when the light is flashing. Dan: My light gets flashing all the time. Not a one or two. Ding! Ding! Click. Jennifer: Hello! Okay, it is seriously more to seek there is more— Dan: Absolutely! Jennifer: Right I am fluster. Okay. There is much more to sex and just having an orgasm, okay? We like to say that sex is a journey, not a destination. So, you know, if you and your wife are doing things that you enjoy. That is what important. Now, how do you communicate that to her and convince her that it is not her fault, and she is not doing something wrong. Take her to the doctor with you, that is my suggestion. If it really is the medication, and your doctor can confirm that, take her with you. Let her hear it from someone else. Dan: Yes, that way you can enjoy your journey and you are your experience and since she is not taking off your performance checklist. You know, she did this, she did that, he did not orgasm, again. It should be fine. [Music Playing] AskDanAndJennifer.com