Relationship sex, at times, becomes monotonous. The key is to ensure the routine doesn't become too difficult to break. In this clip the Cherry TV women discuss ways around it. Sure, it takes work, but a revitalized sex life is worth it.
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Juicy Talk for Women Cherry TV.com Cherry Dish In this clip, the women talk about how sex with their long term boyfriend is different than sex with other partners. Female 1: What are some things that have made your sex life more exciting you know, did you use like a cliché. Female 2: Quickies. Female 1: Really? Female 2: Yes, because I think you know, sometimes you just want to get off and you shouldn’t take that personally from you now, depending on, if you're having–if you can say that to the other person or not. You sort to have to get to the point where, “Yes, I love your body. I worship you, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. But it’s just, I want to cum and I have to go to work now.” And then I referred to it as like weekday sex. Weekend sex, I can deep breath and you can enjoy each other’s bodies more and be together. But weekday sex, I like it to be quick more so because I have other stuff I need to do. I wish I could be more present but that’s the reality. Female 3: I was very experienced sexually, going into this relationship and I typically would’ve cared to trust myself as really adventurous and kind of kinky and so with him, the most radical thing was the move I made towards much more conventional sex and much more just conventional ways of being in a relationship too. And for me that was also sort of like giving him the reigns because I had always been the adventurous, confident one and that was more, that felt safer to me and with him it was more like, “I’m going to let initiate.” I’m going to like, just be more like take more of a typically female role, it was always uncomfortable for me because I identify as a feminist and it’s vulnerable and I don’t get to control the way you're looking at my body or you know I just sort to have gave over some power, not even in the super S&M way but just in more of a regular which was hard. Female 1: Interesting. Female 4: I or we have started to not role playing but like having sex in different ways which I don’t think that I had done with anybody else in the relationship I’ve been with. It’s like, I can get thrown against the walls sometimes, I can get bend over the kitchen sometimes, or we can make love or we can you know or I can be in control or he can be in control like, that’s really nice because you're not always in the mood for the same old shit. It’s like sometimes I want to get dressed up, sometimes I want get up a little Kama Sutra kit. You know what I mean and I feel like, especially when you're starting to have sex with somebody like when we were younger or when you lost your virginity, it was like you're stuck to the basics and like, “This is the cookie cutter way of having sex.” But when you're with somebody for a while, you just start to experiment with more things, it’s like we do 69 more now than we used to. We’re getting a lot better at it and I like it, but I don’t know. I don’t like it all the time we would that often but it’s just like we–you just try on like different hats when you feel like it and that is really nice though. Female 3: It can be easy in the relationship, I mean just as because it’s safer and more comfortable when you're less experienced to do the same thing all the time. In a relationship sometimes because of scheduling or just past complacency, if you find something that works, it’s easy to just do it and do it and do it and then it stops to work. Female 4: Things get stagnant. Female 3: Things get stagnant, just like do it in the living room, like– Female 4: Kitchen. Female 3: Yes, right when you walk in the door, like take of your clothes, you know just to initiate, even just like a subtle things like a change of scenery or whatever. Female 4: Also that excitement when you first get together like that, it fizzles, like I remember, I used to like drag him into his bedroom and like rip off his clothes and when like, “You don’t do that to me anymore,” I’m like “Oh I’m sorry. Come on.” Like, because you just start to forget how thing

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