In this video, Dan and Jenn explain why you need to feel comfortable with your sexual fetishes.
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Jennifer: And this question is from Marty of Pennsylvania. Dear Dan and Jennifer, I am a 59-year-old male and I have always found the side of a woman smoking a cigarette to be very arousing. Unfortunate that my wife understands this and uses it to excite me, but these questions are from both of us, is this weird and have you heard of it before? Dan: Yes, sure it is weird and you know what? Are you weird? Sure! So is everybody. Everybody has got their own quirky fetishes and things like they like. And what does that mean? That nothing is weird. Really, truly. So what is weird, different from what the others three guys on the block like? How do you really know? Jennifer: How do you define normal and how do you define weird, yes. Dan: Yes, because so many people are so amazingly hypocritical talking about this movie stars, about Britney Spears having this one fetish or another, liking this thing or that, and if your regular person was under the microscope like some of the movies stars are? You know, it will be amazing the kind of weird stuff they would come out. Jennifer: We would all be thrown in jail. Dan: So really, there is not such thing as weird. If you like what you like, be at peace with it. It is okay. Jennifer: The important thing you for you guys is that you both enjoy it. That is the important thing. An author friend of ours said something and I always love him, it is like find somebody who likes to play the way that you do and have fun. Because that is all the matters, it does not matter what anybody else does. Dan: Absolutely.