Fantasizing During Masturbation or Sex with a Partner Video

Some of us love to fantasize. Masturbating or with a lover, we’ll conjure up scenarios, imagery, fantasy partners, anything to aid orgasm. However, some of us don’t fantasize and tend to focus only on the sensations as they happen.
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Juicy Talk for Women Cherry TV.com Cherry Dish Check out this episode where the women discuss fantasizing. Female 1: I love fantasying. Female 1: I like it and you know I don’t always need it. It’s helpful to kick start something and then I also like to be in my body, really feel sensation and not be too wrapped up with fantasy. I just want to be in my skin. But fantasy’s good for kick starting that, if but sometimes, if I’m using fantasy, it’s over in 20 seconds and then like— Female 1: I like fantasy, is like the layering thing, like sometimes I want be really in my body and be really present and that’s fun. And sometimes I want to layer another fantasy on top of what’s going on. That’s fun. Female 3: How, what do mean by that? Female 1: Well at first I started doing this one when it had this some–of those kind of boredom and so, I was like let’s come and take this up a notch. But then I, and I felt bad about that and I thought about it and I’m like, “No, it’s actually bad. It’s just another element,” you know. So then I started cultivating it, like, okay we’re doing this thing and I’m fantasizing about another person here or I’m fantasizing about us somewhere else or I’m fantasizing about me, being someone else, with someone else and none of that to me is bad. That’s just, flavor, just seasoning to your dish. Female 4: Well there’s a reason romance novels are so popular, you know the dirty where women in were very, we use imagery a lot you know, to where men uses porn. We can kind of fantasize and get it going. Female 5: I’m not so big in the fantasy unless I’m with somebody in person. I don’t like to masturbate very much. I prefer to have a lover or somebody else and it’s not that I, I can't, it’s just that, I prefer not to excite but I really prefer flesh on flesh and emotional and kind of spiritual or some other type of connection along with the sexual experience. And so, fantasy, I like it when there’s someone else there but not always with myself. Female 3: And has that always with the case if you always not been on masturbating? Female 5: There is a, there is a point when I love dating and I started masturbating when I was 7 so it’s you know, it’s like way back then but you know, once I got to watch and had to watch porn to masturbate, that’s when I lost the inspiration to want to do it. I got to a point where I couldn’t just fantasize while masturbating and I was like, you know. Female 4: I am big on the fantasizing; I was always hot for teacher. Female 1: Oh I had crazy fantasies. I did have alien fantasies. I had to create like one of them was like, one of them was like on this, I always fantasize when I jack off, but like so they were always like, out there like it was all about location for me. So one when was on a spaceship and one of them was like in a car with like convertible like. You know what I mean like, it was all about location for me. So I would, I, as far out there as I could get, the better. Female 3: And so you still did do that when you, whenever you masturbate, you fantasize. Female 1: No, not whenever. Sometimes I’m like, working on other focus, you know you from inside. But I like to fantasize and it definitely like gets me there faster, I have a good fantasy. Female 4: I like to fantasize about people watching, people watching as I’m having sex like it’s something that’s really hot. Female 6: I don’t know that like, when I you know masturbating I start fantasizing but definitely it happens when I’m asleep like when I’m dreaming, I think fantasies really come out when you're asleep. And so, but yes, I definitely had the experience of having people watching me and really, really, really enjoying that in my dream. Soon then I woke up and I was like, “Oh, that would be so hot,” but, not sure if I’m quite ready for that. Juicy Talk for Women Cherry TV.com

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