Dan and Jenn answer a man who is wondering if enjoying to watch other people sleep with his wife is weird.
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Dan: This question comes from Bruce in Colorado and he says I like watching my wife get banged, by a well endowed man, am I weird? His whole question is dear Dan and Jennifer, I enjoy watching my wife have sex with another man who is extremely well endowed, he says I love to watch her as she climaxes and wave that she does it with me, that is really sweet and the loud for moans during sex with him. She moans with the other guy and he likes it, that is so sweet, that really is, he is an older gentleman, also they talk about other guy in particular. The other guy is an older gentleman and we have done this a few times, is this too weird? Is this abnormal for me to want this and enjoy it? [Music Playing] Dan: Maybe, is that weird, is that abnormal, well maybe it is weird, sure by some standard. It is odd? Jennifer: And on your box, okay? Dan: If you think outside your box. Jennifer: Does your box sit over here, does you r box sit down here, is it tilted this way? Dan: Yeah we were all weird in our way and everybody think that his fetish is okay. Jennifer: But everyone else is weird. Dan: But the other guys is weird, this is how this weird word is turned around so often. Jennifer: And normal, come on, who gets to say what is normal? Dan: Yes, really and typically that way we would go when we talk about most sexual vanities, fetishes whatever, typically we talk about, look, consent the adults, when talking about consenting adults and then I am going to use this finger and this one and this one. When talking about consenting adults, who cares? Do what you want, do what you enjoy as long as you both enjoy it and while three of you enjoy it, nobody gets hurt so what, right? Jennifer: Absolutely, absolutely and as a woman, I have to say, wow you rock, I mean it is just something about your self confidence and your security with yourself and your own masculinity to be able to enjoy your wife, enjoying herself even if it is not you causing it because most men are so insecure that if their wife is enjoying anything, let us save it in cause then they get jealous. Dan: Ours is already so judgmental and territorial in office, it is really based on. Jennifer: So, if you guys talking and you are having a good time, I get all grown up.