In this relationship video Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal talk about discussing your sexual conquest with your friends and how it can backfire.
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Tamsen: Hey, everybody, it’s Matt and Tamsen. Okay, should you be gossiping or talking about love life or your sex life with your friends? Matt: Should you be? Well, we-we do. Tamsen: I know you guys do because you get nothing else to talk about besides football. Matt: We do all this time. We’ve a lot to talk about. It’s just that we have to compare. We get new technique info. We… Tamsen: You talk about technique? Matt: Ah, it’s very important, yes but a lot of my boys. Tamsen: How does the conversation even go? Matt: You really want me to tell you? Tamsen: No, I don’t. Please don’t share. Matt: Any guy that is telling you that he does not talk, kiss and tell, is a lying guy. So, guys talk amongst themselves. Tamsen: My gosh! It sounds like abstracting and I get… Matt: It’s a very broad stroke from what I’ve heard. Tamsen: It’s not broad stroke. They’re just something that we ran around like trying to brag about our conquest. You know, if like he was good, he is like hot. He is…I don’t know. Is it something necessary? Matt: Well, I think it’s something that’s very important. It’s very important for guys, again you know, we review… Tamsen: Cause you’re big communicators? Matt: We study and we learn new things. So, ladies, you want our guys talking about it because they learn stuff and will just benefit you in the bedroom. Tamsen: Okay. Here is what I think is not gonna be good. What’s not gonna be good is when you’re broken up and they’re still talking abut it and that’s not a good thing because—and then your whole technique, what you do, the privacy, what you think is private between you and somebody else is now like—people will be twittering about it for all I know. Not necessary… Matt: Swearing to learn your sex lessons. Tamsen: Please don’t talk about your sex life. We don’t wanna know about it. Matt: What do you guys think though? Do you think it’s cool to talk about your sex life? Do you think the guys should think the girls do it? What do you guys think? Let us know.