Dan and Jenn give some advice on what to do when you cannot achieve an erection while swinging.
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[Music Playing] Male: So this question is from Adam of Colorado, Adam! Female: I am sorry, I thought I was reading question, I had the wrong question. [Cross Talk] Female: Okay, now keep going. Male: So this question is from Adam from Colorado. Adam had a swinger disaster. He could not get it up and highly unfortunate, okay, so he said, Dear Dan and Jennifer. My wife and I just experienced our first wing encounter and I am a very lucky man having a wife that is so open to this, so many guys are trying to get their girlfriends out, a three swinger situation you are a lucky guy. She was great! I however is a little nervous. So nervous that I had difficulty getting or had a difficult time getting erection. This has happen never happen before, it is like honest dude it has never happen. Female: Does never happen. Male: And then there was like it was not me you know. Female: I would believe you. Male: Yes, seriously we do. I said I do not know if there was a fact there that I was watched by 50 million people! Female: Oh! My god! That might be on stage the first time. Male: I am merely wow! 15 people, I was been watch by 15 people who had, do you have any pimps to help overcome this problem of not be able to step up to bed, thank you. [Music Playing] Female: Oh! Mark, I am so [Muffled] that I have going to be kind of embarrassing and uncomfortable but you know, there is a big difference between you and your wife and another couple hanging out at the pool or—[Cross Talk] Male: And you are going to step in somebody’s bedroom. Female: In a house party or the thing that it sounds like you are… Male: A highly [Muffled] exhibitionist house party, how did you line up 15 people want to have sex? Wow! Female: But anyway, regardless of that, our suggestion be kind of back up a little bit, try a more intimate setting, you know, two on two instead 2 on 15, okay? Male: But once you are feeling more comfortable. I mean… Female: We have to teach sometimes, do we? Male: Yes. Female: And sometime that we decide that we forget what we are going to say sometimes. Male: Yes, but once you are feeling more comfortable and this will resolve itself and you are so now, you will be referring to the one and only time you could not get it up. Female: Yes, you are going to be laughing about this, okay? and then there another thing to keep in mind, do not think that just because you go this house party and everybody is having sex that you have to. Male: Absolutely not! Female: Okay, you should never ever have sex unless you are perfectly comfortable doing it. Male: And you want to know it that is how it does. Female: Yes! You know some people really get off on having 15 wanting to have sex then they do maybe not comfortable with that, so do not feel that you have to, do not pressure, you have to have sex on the first date, and all that kind of stuff, so just relax and maybe just go down a little bit. [Music Playing]