In this relationship video Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal talk about spending too much time with someone.
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Tamsen: Hey everybody, Matt and Tamsen here. Okay, this next question is, “Is there such a thing as hanging out too much?” This guy is a friend of the woman and you know he seems to be interested in her but he's kind of put in a friend category with her and she acquainted to the—movie. Matt: I get it a better movie to equate it too. It’s called My Best Friend’s Girl, watch it. Tamsen: Yeah! Matt: My Best Friend’s Girl! You don’t want to be the character that Jason Biggs played. It’s a good movie. I love it! Tamsen: Yeah, because he’s just in the friend’s category. And so you know what, there is such a thing as hanging out too much because she's probably taking it for granted that you're always going to be there. She's not worried that you're going anywhere and that’s the friend category. Matt: You know, you want to do it, your stuntman. So, you're going through all of the nightmare as somebody else’s getting it, you know, you don’t want to be a stuntman. Get out. Get out, seriously. Tamsen: Yeah! You know I would give her a little bit of her own space. I wouldn’t be on the phone with her all the time. I wouldn’t be there all the time to replicate a boyfriend. You want to be the boyfriend. So, let her know or maybe you're going to do. Matt: Nice guys without the price always finish last. Nice guys with the price always finish first. You're not getting the price, you don’t want to be last. Tamsen: All right! This has been Matt and Tamsen, until next time.