In this relationship video Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal tell you how to be friends with your partner's ex.
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Tamsen: Hey everybody, Matt and Tamsen here with askmattandtamsen.com answering your question about love. Matt: Nigel. Nigel: Hello, today we have a question from Marie in Green Bay, Wisconsin. Marie writes, “My girlfriend wants her ex boyfriend and I become friends. She said she has significant part of her life and always will be. To do this to complete tool and couldn’t be any further from the guy I would like to hang out with. Any advice?” Matt: Thanks Nigel. Tamsen: This is a difficult one like why she said significant part of her life? Matt: Why do you girls will do that? You always try to fair us all. Tamsen: I'm not doing that. Matt: A lot of women, I've heard this question before a lot of women are fair and soft, a lot of women ask us to hang out with their dad Sunday afternoon— [Voice Overlap] Tamsen: Boyfriend like that that’s the whole not her. Matt: That’s not an issue but you know what the power move here if you hear this guys like look you know I wouldn’t hangout with that type of guy he’s not the type of friend I like go spend time with him I don’t care what you do, you know but you're not going fair, your not going to tell who my friends are. You know and do that. Tamsen: Yeah, I think he also she's find out like why he is just significant part of her life because it will access still such a significant part that she watch that be friend with them then maybe there something else going on there. Maybe not but maybe there is something going on. [Voice Overlap] Matt: But you know what a lot of people end relationships well, you end relationships well all I know ex boyfriends are your friends. Tamsen: Yeah, but— Matt: You know my ex girlfriend would run me over in the street they were driving and I was walking. You know you're good at that and that’s probably, you know that what going on here with expects. You know what take you out of the equation so important to her when she want to spend time with her be secure with him, be secure and move on. Tamsen: Yeah, definitely. All right this been Matt and Tamsen until next time.