Arguing and Fighting: How Can You Fix Your Spouse Video

My girlfriend and I fight all the time and she's always twisting things around to her side, keeping score, and she doesn't seem to trust me. There are also several other issues that we need to resolve. Any advice on how to fix her and this relatio...
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Male: Hey you guys, thanks so much for the great comment you believe in all the videos. We always want to know what you have to say, so you know whether you agree with us, we really like or if you disagree with us in a nice constructive and useful way— Female: You know one of our favorite folks on YouTube is Sexy Phil, you don’t want sexy feel you’re missing out but I love what he says. If their talking about you, you’re doing something right. Male: His right, so anyway we always want to know what you guys think so I’ll always leave comments, okay, so today the thing again I’ll be leaving a comment later. How can you fix someone else? Not with the hammer, me and my— Female: Double barrel. Male: No, this is not the clock solution— Female: Blow something up, that fixes everything. Male: Most of the time, okay how do you fix someone else, me and my fiancé girlfriend are constantly at war. Hey, there are normal argument she seems to confuse facts and twist words for her own benefit and once I’ve proven the fact that I’m right to an unbiased third party—oh no, not to an unbiased there right? Once I’ve proven the fact that I’m right, she just ignores it completely and just drifts on to another argument or a situation. This has made the case why you never ever got a relationship there if you’re by yourself because their going to hear that and nobody calling called BS. Could be true but it’s unlike—there are also trust issues on her part. She’s always snooping on my computer and in my house. Does she feel that she needs to? I don’t do these things to her, there’s also a lot of score keeping on both sides. I really don’t want to loose her. There are good times, honest there, we’ve had good times but I feel like I’m being treated—untreated for what? If you just said like I feel like I’m being treated, I’m like treated for what? I should also mention that she’s in a middle of a— Female: Unfairly, I think it was unfairly. Male: Probably, she’s in a middle of a two-year divorce/custody battle. Female: So what with the two years divorce battles today? Male: Does anybody want to get together and get apart anymore, like all the long-term relationship—long distance relationships and the retirement planning divorces. Any advice for us would be appreciated on how to fix these troubles on girlfriend. Female: Ego. Male: This is such a he said, she said thing and she’s doing good, she’s doing that and I’m not really that bad. This woman needs fixing, this to me just— Female: Probably looking for a reason to fight. Male: It screams for the need to sit down with an unbiased third party and say, look, I feel that you’re doing all this, I feel this stuff and you can say she’s doing it whatever just dumps it all on this one unbiased third party. And she can get her side because this is the kind of crap that his friend Joe here she has done me wrong with this, with this, with this. And this completely and utterly useless conversation. It just seems a very complaint at email, message and its hard to know who’s right, who’s wrong, he’s feeling mistreated but I think their reeling in a third party to really step in and help. Female: It’s a fight, everybody needs to step back and take a breath. Male: When all this fighting and all this war and all this stuff, what do you think? Male 1: I need a drink. Male: I bet, after all—I know I do. Male 1: It looks like we have a drama king living with a drama queen. Female: Yes, it’s a perfect match made in hell. Male 1: And the bottom line here is that she doesn’t make any sense because she’s not coming from logic, she’s coming from feelings and she uses feelings to validate her perceptions. The male uses logic to validate their perceptions and its like— Female: He’s like I proved my point logically but she just changes it, well it’s because she’s coming from emotion, it doesn’t matter what you say or how logical it is. It’s not going to click with her. Male1: Well it’s the old men are from mars, women are from Venus

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