My guy wants to have anal sex all the time, and loses his erection if we don't do it. How can I get him off his addiction? Is it something to worry about?
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Jennifer: My guy is addicted to anal sex, I won’t admit Dan that I read this question. Dan: But you almost did. Jennifer: Dear Dan and Jennifer, my boyfriend and I have a wonderful emotional relationship as well as a wonderful physical relationship. Dan: Always a good thing. Jennifer: He recently convinced me to try anal sex. I hated it at first, but after giving it the few extra shots, it was okay. He loves it so much. So most of times, I allow to him finish there. Lately, I’ve noticed that if we skip the anal and just stick to vaginal, he can’t finish and end up losing his erection. Am I not tight enough anymore in comparison? I am 20 and he is 32. Is there a possibility that he is losing his drive? The three word, Erectile Dysfunction. Dan: Ah! Is it a dysfunction-- Jennifer: Of! Nobody likes to talk about that. Dan: See, he is reaching that magical age, the big the 32 and approaching that magical age myself, I find big concern there. I’d like to say that, no, it’s not, the problem is not with him. Okay fine. Most likely, this is likely a more a physiological thing and I would wonder if they go, see a professional, okay and I wouldn’t be half surprised if they discover a nicely, deeply buried fetish that he really likes that and once you let tutorial at the cage and just see that right, safe sex, but look and have it . Once you get the toy out of the box, you kind of want to play with it and I am not really surprised that now he really wants to do that all the time and.. Jennifer: You got to be careful, though, okay. This is our typical anal sex feel, okay. We are not going to tell you not to do it, but if you are going to do it, be careful, be safe, be gentle and don’t do it all the time. So.. Dan: Especially, when the guys came know the morning, dogs go nuts, keep going. Jennifer: Okay, what do they keep going? A lawn guys are out flies, then dogs are going to cut,.. wait, wait Shasha, come here. Dan: Sasha, come here, come here, come here. Jennifer: This will be a great time to you guys to meet Sasha. Come here, come here. Dan: That one looks _, come here. Jennifer: This is our very big dog. She’s a very big German Shepherd. Here, I will move the table for a second. You guys can meet the dog. Come here Sasha. Dan: This is the other end of the Yorkie Jennifer: This is Sasha. You can’t see her, but she is my doggy all the way. She’s such a little dog. Dan: This one’s a little psycho like Dan. Jennifer: And then we have this _, Yorkie. So, anyway, back on topic. Dan: Okay, back on topic. Jennifer: Anal sex, you got it safe about... Dan: This one too young to... Jennifer: I hate my dog talking about Anal sex, but.. Dan: I am sitting with the dog will talk about ... Jennifer: It’s not something you do everything Sasha agrees. It’s not something you do all the time. Dan: And why? It’s not because your _. it’s not correct because you’re going to get hit by lightening, okay and you might. If you believe you will, then you just might and you enjoy. Mother Nature didn’t built it a way basic human anatomy. The body isn’t built for that. Jennifer: It’s an outhaul rather inhaul, okay. Dan: We are not saying never do it, but if you do, you can consider the special treat, lots of lubrication, be gentle and just remember, it wasn’t built for that. It doesn’t self lubricate. Jennifer: Yeah, and go to the doctor, get him checked out, okay. It’s not normal to consistently lose your erection, okay. We all go through stress sometimes. We all have, may be he is sick or he is not feeling good or retired or whatever, but if this is a consistent problem, go, see a medical doctor and even if it’s not a medical problem, may be it’s a psychological problem and there is something wrong with that. Okay, just talk to someone who will be helping with it.