A viewer asks 'Am I wrong to like sex with married men'? America's love experts Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal answer.
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Matt: Hey everybody! Matt & Tamsen here with ask Your Tango answering your love questions. Tamsen: Alright his question comes from torrieg and her love brief: single and loving it. Torrie is asking, is it wrong that sleeping with married men turns me on? Matt: Torrie, it’s not wrong, but where are you going with this? First of all, its going to turn you on because there is no commitment, you're taking the guy away from his wife because you're the seductress right now so its that role your playing that’s making it sort of hot. But its not going to go anywhere and if that’s what you expect, that’s all your expectation, that’s cool but you're heading to some serious situations. Tamsen: Yeah! Its probably going to turn you on with some of the things that come after that so while it might be natural for a challenge to turn you on which is exactly what this is, it’s a challenge, it’s a little bit secretive, it’s a little bit different but what's not going to happen long term is that there is not going to be any kind of commitment. So, you said you're single and loving it and if you are, then that’s good. But you know what, that guy is not like— Matt: Torrie, lets see if this turns you on. Let me tell you what he is thinking. Basically, you're a single skunk, okay and he has everything at home that he needs and you're just like, somebody that he can just you know— Tamsen: Use. Matt: Every once in a while. So if that turns you on, hey, more power to you. Tamsen: Yeah! We don’t want you to be that person. Matt: No, we don’t. Tamsen: Go find a single guy, they can be a turn on too. I promise. Alright, this is the Matt & Tamsen for YourTango.com. Matt: Got a question you’d like answered? Tamsen: Visit yourtango.com/questions.