In this relationship video Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal give you advice on who should call who.
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Matt Titus: Hey everybody Matt and Tamsen here. Okay today’s question, do guys think the girls too pushy if she always calls first or the guys like that? Tamsen Fadal: Why do you always get to start the question? Matt Titus: No, guys don’t like that because I don’t call. Tamsen Fadal: Oh that’s right. Matt Titus: Guys don’t like you to call them. Tamsen Fadal: Don’t call a guy first ever. If you call a guy first the relationship is doomed. I don’t care if your going to make it, general statement, you can fight me. Matt Titus: It’s really general— Tamsen Fadal: It’s very general but you know what that means that you’re creating the scenario. Matt Titus: Then the time run going on so you’re initiating, initiating, initiating, initiating— Tamsen Fadal: You are chasing him if you want to want to be the chasee or do you want to be one that’s chased. Matt Titus: chase— Tamsen Fadal: Is chasee a word? Matt Titus: So here’s the deal call me not. Why happened he called, he-- Tamsen Fadal: He called— Matt Titus: He is the operative word there, he is suppose to be calling you. So if you have to wait just wait but don’t pick up the phone. Guys don’t like it and I don’t care what they say. Tamsen Fadal: I do want better than that. If he’s not calling, he’s not interested. Now, do you want to go to chase somebody which is not interested, he’s not that into you, that’s not in the book. I’m sorry. Honestly, don’t call I have nothing more to say. Matt Titus: Call us instead. This has been Matt and Tamsen. Send any of your dating, relationship or love questions our way. We’re here to answer them for you. Take care. Tamsen Fadal: See you soon.