In this relationship video Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal give you advice on telling someone you're a virgin.
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Tamsen: Hey everybody, Matt and Tamsen here with askmattandtamsen.com answering your questions about love. Matt: Nigel. Nigel: Today we have a question from Ryan in Boston Massachusetts. Ryan writes, “I'm 26 years old and I have never been with the woman. I am not to have sex for the first time with someone I want to have a relationship with. Should I tell her? Tamsen: Thanks Nigel. Nigel: Thanks. Tamsen: Yeah, I think you have a responsibility definitely to tell her because that would be really. He have to tell—you know [Voice Overlap] Matt: Absolutely not. Tamsen: I guess that happens and not know what I'm doing. Matt: Listen, honestly please don’t tell her because that’s going to make her feel awkward, that’s going to make her, you know, she's going to honestly know everything she's going to be looking for you not to know what— [Voice Overlap] Tamsen: She might be and happy to be like helping you guy and you're living into process not every single girl wants to be you know. Matt: It sounds like Mr. Robinson. Tamsen: Seriously. Matt: Honestly don’t tell her do the best you can take it slow, watch her body, watch her respond and you know it’s natural, it’s a natural think. You'll know what you're do when you get there trust me, don’t panic. Tamsen: If she's the right kind of girl and you can tell her. Matt: All right that’s fine if she's the right kind of girl and she says to that and pretty cool maybe imagine it to her but honestly if she's like a normal hot chick don’t tell her. You'll embarrass yourself and she’ll feel really awkward. Tamsen: I think it’s wonderful. Matt: I think its like get out there and do something to her please. Tamsen: All right, this from Matt and Tamsen until next time in the meantime just send your question on way. Matt: See you.