Here the Cherry TV women give guidance on creating satisfying sexual experiences by making sure the pace is right for you both.
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During sex, we often want to slow things down. Here, the women talk how. Participant: I also think that in the beginning when you first start seeing someone that for me its really—it has been really helpful to just – off actually having intercourse to because then its sort of like we’ll force that guy to figure out what else he can possibly do. It was like, heterosexual sex or around the word, you guys make out a lot before you actually have sex, preferably yeah. Participant: I mean, actually in the moment, like do you have sex for, I mean, do you make out for a long time and then have intercourse. Participant: Well, I think that’s one of the advantages of putting off intercourse because it’s hard to go back to hand holding and then making out with reality. Participant: Because with my experience with women you build up every time from making out to touching all over to you know hands, to you know, its like there is sex every time and I wonder, I don’t know if its like that with guys. Participant: Me, I have to go from kissing to touching and stuff like women— Participant: Licking, and then fucking and I think because I feel like I’ve had a courage of those, jacking your guys and I was not experienced to work it out, if you go straight to that, when you first start – that’s a precedence for the rest of that sexual relationship and its specially if its before you really have that sense of entitlement and you can just like, “whoa, lets go back.” Which it took me along time to get to that point and its like, it is important how you do it this first few times. And there is kind this—there's a sex transfer for everybody, I mean practically. Participant: But the guy sex trans is much harder to roll back. Participant: Absolutely. Participant: You kind of have to get there the early stages because you get to the – brushing, it’s pretty difficult to, you know, switch to another gear. I think it’s physically difficult for them. Participant: It is, it’s like biologically difficult, they can’t go from— Participant: Because they go from being intimate to completely primal and total animal mode which is great and fantastic but there is no— Participant: Its their wisdom. Participant: Exactly and there is no way to go from animal to tender loving. It doesn’t happen, they go from animal to— Participant: And once I lose that connection and they go into the – if I'm not also – then I’m just going to move further and further away them and then its going to be—that’s how you'll end faking orgasms. Participant: Exactly.