In this relationship video Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal give you advice on having sex in public and how you should react to this.
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Tamsen: Hey, everybody, it’s Matt and Tamsen here on mattandtamsen.com answering your questions in the web 24-7. Najo: Matt, you give me a shot up. Matt? Matt: Hi Najo. Najo: Suddenly we have a question fro the call in Boston Massachusetts. Nichole writes: My boyfriend wants to have sex with me in public. At first it was places like the park at 2 am when there wasn’t anyone around. This was kind of cool and exciting. But now, it’s totally out of hand. He wants to do it in the library, at school during the day. I’m totally not into this. What can I do juts to get him stop wanting this? Matt: Thanks Najo. Tamsen: Alright. So, I think he is for like the thrill factor more than anything else. Matt: Of course, yes. Tamsen: I don’t even now if this is like boyfriend girlfriend love? It sounds like a good time. Matt: Sounds like he’s getting a little bit bored and he needs to spice it up and honestly there is a fine line. I mean… Tamsen: Yeah. I mean … Matt: Public place are cool but you know, public places are only cool when you’re 90% sure you’re not gonna get caught. You know, I had a girlfriend once in a while that I always have sex like in front of my window to face another building. She wants to put a spotlight on— Tamsen: Yeah. But she wasn’t going to be arrested there. You know what I mean— Matt: But I know. Tamsen: The library? Matt: Yeah. The guy is like a sick boy… Tamsen: Yeah. I’m gonna think he really, you know, he needs something else so like have a good time and if you’re okaying with that, that’s one thing that you said you were really uncomfortable with it, I would really let him out and you need to find out if like the relationship can still exists without these kind of thrills. Matt: Yeah. Tamsen: Yeah? Matt: Honestly, he’s way past saving I think. But you know what, tell him how you’re feeling. Maybe you could rock his world like in the bedroom again. Maybe try do something really different and it’ll take his mind off the surroundings where he wants to have sex. Tamsen: The library. Matt: You know what I mean? Tamsen: Alright. Well, if you have unanswered questions you be sure to send them our way and ask mattandtamsen.com Matt: We’ll see you.