In this relationship video Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal give you advice on dating the older men.
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Tamsen: Hey everybody, Matt and Tamsen here. Okay, today’s topic, dating someone significantly older than you is that a good idea or not? I'll say it’s fine, I absolutely think there's nothing wrong whatsoever. Matt: Well of course— Tamsen: And I've done it. Matt: Of course you do because when I met Tamsen, she was dating guy I think it was like 70. Does he like 70? How old was he? Tamsen: No, he was not— Matt: He need some cash so maybe there is some logic there but other that he was like an old man. I think she actually write him stories and fed him food. I'm going to say no just because I think like mindedness and things that you could do together such as go out for a jog or play tennis, you know or something that you both like would be a lot more sensible than— Tamsen: A 20-year-old and a 40-year-old can both go play tennis. Matt: Now, who’s dating a 40 year old? If I'm 20 I'm not dating a 40 year old woman? Tamsen: Why not you might like older women, you might find them more attractive? Matt: A 20-year-old guy is in terms 19 he’s not going to date a 40 year old. Tamsen: Why did you date 40 year old women? Clay: Yeah, at ones Tamsen: Clay said yes. Matt: Clay. Clay: I did ones. Matt: Okay ones in general it’s not done, it’s not that successful. I'm going to say the further you could go is like five to eight years. Tamsen: That’s insane. You can go like 15 years. Matt: If you want the relationship to work you want a bullet be in you know the same fitness level, you want to both have the same interest and you want to both have the same intellect that’s why we need a counter part to your age. Tamsen: Yeah. Matt: Yeah, right. Tamsen: All right, what do you guys think— [Voice Overlap] Matt: I'm five years younger than Thomson so I mean this relationship working very well for us. Tamsen: All right, should you date somebody significantly older is it a good thing or not so good? Let us know.