In this relationship video Matt Titus and Tamsen Fadal give you advice on how to behave when dating a virgin.
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Tamsen: Hey everybody, Matt and Tamsen here. Okay, today’s question topic would you date a virgin? Matt: I'm going to say absolutely not because there's a lot of responsibility that comes with that and a lot of expectation. Tamsen: A lot of responsibility? What do you mean— [Voice Overlap] Matt: If you're going— Tamsen: Through the rest of her life because sex with there ones? Matt: You're going to be someone that’s she's never going to forget and after the sex happens she's going to have a lot of expectations like you're going to stick around, you're going to treat here certain way. Tamsen: Not true, not true. Matt: You're got to be there for her. It sounds like a complete nightmare to me if I'm a single good looking guys. Tamsen: That is naïve thinking—you’ve right. Matt: It sounds awful. Tamsen: Totally naïve thinking on your part. Matt: I know a lot of guys they would not want that responsibility. Tamsen: I don’t think there's anything wrong with it and quite frankly I have a confession to make I was a virgin until my mid 20’s. Matt: Thank god— Tamsen: And I dated a lot of guys and I wouldn’t dated none of them because they scared their we’re going to have to stick around forever. Matt: Did they know you're a virgin? Tamsen: Of course! That guy I admitted that— Matt: And how did it work out? Tamsen: They we’re great relationships, I mean— Matt: Where are they, where did they go? I don’t see him anywhere. Tamsen: They we’re great relationship so I met you we’re just a been the best. Matt: I don’t understand like that is a very, very interesting situation that comes with a lot of responsibility intimidates a lot of men. Tamsen: I agree comes with lots of responsibility and I agree can be intimidating but I wouldn’t say right somebody off because she has and had sex but that’s ridiculous. What do you guys think? I mean I think that’s ridiculous. Matt: I would much—I personally would much rather have a woman that has been past had a lot of sexual experience that knows how people behave after sex that knows the boundaries and knows what it takes to have a success relationship. Tamsen: Oh yeah because everybody walk on the planets like that. Matt: Let me tell you something dating a virgin is a big responsibility so if I'm a single guy it’s not my first choice. Tamsen: Let us know what do you guys think.