What Is Sexual Dysfunction?

What Is Sexual Dysfunction?

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  • Overview


    Sexual dysfunction is when you have a problem that prevents you from wanting or enjoying sexual activity. It can happen anytime, from that first blush of excitement to orgasm. Men and women of all ages experience sexual dysfunction, although the chances increase as we get older.

    Stress is a common cause of sexual dysfunction. It’s hard to feel sexy or be in the mood when you’re fatigued or overwhelmed. Sexual trauma or psychological issues can cause sexual dysfunction. So can diabetes, heart disease, or other medical conditions. Drug and alcohol use and certain medications can also be contributing factors.

  • When Does a Bad Night Become a Disorder?

    When Does a Bad Night Become a Disorder?

    Sexual dysfunction can be divided into four categories. None of these should be considered a disorder unless it happens regularly and makes you unhappy.

    Desire disorder: It’s okay not to be in the mood sometimes. Desire disorder is when you have little or no interest in sexual relations on an ongoing basis.

    Arousal disorder: You’re emotionally in the mood, but your body is just not into it.

    Orgasm disorder: You’re totally into it, but your inability to climax leaves you frustrated.

    Pain disorder: It hurts when you have intercourse. 

  • Libido Lowdown

    Libido Lowdown

    In men, low levels of testosterone can cause loss of libido (sexual desire). In women, low estrogen or testosterone levels can affect desire. Hormonal changes following childbirth, breastfeeding, and menopause can interfere with a woman’s interest in sex. Other physical causes include high blood pressure, diabetes, and certain medications.

    Relationship problems and sexual inhibitions can be a turnoff. So can stress, fatigue, and fear of pregnancy.

  • Sexual Dysfunction in Men: Erectile Dysfunction

    Sexual Dysfunction in Men: Erectile Dysfunction

    Erectile dysfunction (ED) is when a man cannot achieve or maintain an erection appropriate for intercourse. This can be due to a problem with blood flow, a nerve disorder, or injury to the penis. It can also be brought about by psychological problems, like stress or depression, or by relationship issues.

    Other causes of ED include Peyronie’s disease, chronic illness, and some medications. Ongoing ED can create a cycle of anxiety and embarrassment. 

  • Sexual Dysfunction in Men: Ejaculation Disorders

    Sexual Dysfunction in Men: Ejaculation Disorders

    When ejaculation happens before or immediately after penetration, it is called premature ejaculation. This is often a consequence of performance anxiety. It can also be due to other psychological stressors or sexual inhibitions. Nerve or spinal cord damage and certain medications can interfere with normal ejaculation.

    Inhibited ejaculation is when you can’t ejaculate at all. Some men, particularly those who have diabetic neuropathy, experience something called retrograde ejaculation. During orgasm, ejaculation enters the bladder instead of exiting out of the penis.

  • Sexual Dysfunction in Women: Pain and Discomfort

    Sexual Dysfunction in Women: Pain and Discomfort

    Many things can cause pain during sexual activity. Inadequate lubrication and tense vaginal muscles make penetration painful. Involuntary vaginal muscle spasms (vaginismus) can make intercourse hurt. These may be symptoms of neurological, urinary tract, or bowel disorders.

    The hormonal changes of menopause can make intercourse uncomfortable. A drop in estrogen levels can result in thinning of the skin in the genital area. It can also thin the vaginal lining and decrease lubrication.

  • Sexual Dysfunction In Women: Missing Out On the Big ‘O’

    Sexual Dysfunction In Women: Missing Out On the Big ‘O’

    Stress and fatigue are the enemies of orgasm. So are pain and discomfort during sexual activity. Women may be unable to achieve orgasm when their sex drive is low or when hormones are out of whack.

    When is a “dysfunction” not a dysfunction? According to Harvard Medical School, a norm for female sexual response is qualitative and not easily measurable and, basically, you don’t have sexual dysfunction if you’re satisfied with your sex life.

  • When to See Your Doctor

    When to See Your Doctor

    When sexual problems keep happening, both partners can suffer from anxiety. Things can escalate if you’re too embarrassed to discuss it.

    If the situation doesn’t improve or you suspect a physical reason, it’s time to see your doctor. Be prepared to give a complete medical history, including a list of prescription and over-the-counter medications. Tell your doctor the specifics of your problem.

    Your doctor will begin with a physical exam. Depending on the outcome, this may be followed by a diagnostic testing. If no physical cause is found, consider seeing a therapist.

  • Treating Physical Causes

    Treating Physical Causes

    Treatment depends on the specific cause. Sometimes, treating an underlying medical condition will resolve the situation. In some cases, switching medications may do the trick.

    ED treatment has advanced a lot in recent years. Many men have positive results using prescription medications like sildenafil citrate (Viagra). Other remedies include mechanical aids, penile implants, or surgery.

    Lubricating gels or creams or hormone therapy may solve the problem of vaginal dryness.

  • Treating Psychological Causes

    Treating Psychological Causes

    If no physical cause is found, psychological counseling may help. A therapist can teach you how to cope with stress and anxiety. Joint counseling with your partner can help improve communication and increase intimacy.

    Sometimes, a little support and education about sexual behavior is all that is needed. Body image and other inhibitions can be addressed in counseling. For deeply routed sexual dysfunction, psychotherapy may be required.

  • Long-Term Outlook

    Long-Term Outlook

    Often, the longer a sexual dysfunction goes on, the more your level of stress and anxiety rises. This can perpetuate the problem. Most of the time, the prognosis for sexual dysfunction is quite good. However, some medical conditions make it more difficult to overcome.

    When approached openly, sexual dysfunction brought on by stress or temporary circumstances can be reversed in short order. Deep-seated psychological issues may take longer, or may never be fully resolved. 

  • Points to Ponder

    Points to Ponder

    Communication is important. If you have any type of sexual dysfunction, talk to your partner. Don’t hesitate to seek medical advice. The National Institutes of Health (NIH) urge victims of sexual assault to seek counseling.

    You are more likely to experience sexual dysfunction if you abuse alcohol or drugs. Before taking new medication, learn about potential side effects and take only as directed.

    Give yourself a break. Sexual dysfunction happens to most people at one time or other. If it becomes an ongoing problem, don’t let embarrassment stop you from seeking help.