Privacy, Child's Right to

Privacy, Child's Right to

Laws and guidelines concerning who should have access to a child's privacy.

Privacy is viewed in most democratic societies as a necessary element in the development of healthy, active individuals. The Fourth Amendment to the U.S. Constitution protects "the right of the people to be secure in their persons, houses, papers, and effects, against unreasonable searches and seizures." The amendment allows for search and seizure "upon probable cause, supported by oath or affirmation, and particularly describing the place to be searched, and the persons or things to seized." Many psychologists recognize that privacy is a cornerstone of a free society. In fact, prisons systematically eliminate privacy for their inmates to reinforce the fact that they have lost the privilege of control over their environment.

Children do not begin to understand issues of privacy until around the age of five or six. At this stage until age 10 or 11, parents can establish the atmosphere of mutual trust and communication that will carry the parent-child relationship through the pre-adolescent and adolescent years. Between ages 10 and 12, the pre-adolescent may want to establish his or her independence. Signs of this include a desire to keep his or her bedroom door closed and to seek privacy for telephone conversations, time with friends, and time alone. Parents should avoid challenging this behavior unless they have reason to suspect that the child is engaged in dangerous or destructive activities. However, they should establish clear rules about acceptable activities. Children should understand that if they breach their parents' trust, parents have both the right and the responsibility to challenge their privacy. By trusting the child in the preadolescent years, parents may minimize the chance that their child will become either secretive and rebellious or dependent and lacking in self-esteem.

Parents can also gather information about their children's world without intruding on their privacy by volunteering at their school; getting acquainted with teachers, principals, guidance counselors, and the school nurse; getting to know their children's friends and the friends' parents; and becoming involved in children's extracurricular activities by attending such events as concerts and sports activities. Many school systems routinely contact parents whose children cut classes or are absent. Parents can express their support of such policies and act immediately if the school contacts them about a problem.

Adolescents in the United States are especially sensitive to any actions that they feel may infringe on their privacy rights. In the late 1990s, concerns about access to inappropriate material on the Internet fostered a lively debate among adolescents, library users, parents, and concerned citizens about ways to limit access to pornographic, violent, or subversive material that is available through the Internet. Filters that limit access are especially offensive to adolescents, but libraries continue to seek ways to selectively access Internet sites, just as they selectively build their book, video, and audio collections.


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