Parent-Teacher Conferences Health Article

Parent-Teacher Conferences

Regularly scheduled meeting between a student's parent(s) and teacher to discuss his or her progress.

The parent-teacher conference is an opportunity for parents to get a glimpse into the school lives of their children. Although many parents are involved in their children's schools, either as members of a parent-teacher organizations, such as PTA, or as volunteers (in a variety of areas), many more have little or no contact other than the parent-teacher conference.

Some parents are reluctant to attend parent-teacher conferences. Such parents are often anxious about schools because of their own negative experiences as children or because they fear they will be perceived as meddlesome. Often, however, an invitation from a teacher to come in for a meeting will be sufficient to break the ice. More and more teachers are now producing newsletters for children to take home (or having the students produce the newsletters) to inform parents about educational activities. Many schools also offer adult education, recreation, and entertainment events to encourage parents to become more involved in the school setting.

Most school systems require teachers to hold conferences with parents. Both teachers and parents benefit from planning how they will use the time together. The Education Digest, a journal directed at K-12 teachers, suggests that teachers carefully consider a range of areas before a parent arrives. These include providing samples of student work, identifying weaknesses and strengths, discussing the student's overall abilities in critical and creative thinking (rather than just grades), discussing social skills and peer relations, and identifying areas for growth and suggestions for strategies parents can use at home to support their child's success in school. In addition, productive parent-teacher conferences provide opportunities for the teacher to receive information about their students' home lives. Teachers can share what they know about the student, and should be prepared to listen to what parents have to say as well. It is vital that teachers assume a non-threatening, non-judgmental stance in listening to parents' views, since parents may find the conference intimidating.

To make the parent-teacher conference less threatening, parents can also prepare in advance. It is common for parents to interpret criticism of their child as an assault on their parenting skills and can react defensively. To set the tone for a productive conference, parents can prepare by discussing the school experience with their child. Parents can take time prior to and during the conference to ask their child for a self-evaluation; objectively review report cards and grades on homework to gain accurate sense of the child's academic performance; maintain openness to the teacher's evaluation, even if it contradicts the parent's own point of view; and strive to use non-threatening and open-minded language and body language.