ACOG Annual Meeting - San Diego - "President's Program" continued...
She focused on the fact that we do not educate our children well on the importance of health, nutrition and exercise, family and responsibility. We deny our sexuality as humans, and we have leaders who naively believe that “just saying no” is the answer to all our problems. “There would be no abortions if there were no unwanted, or unplanned, pregnancies,” she said and pointed to fact that our leaders have taken the holier than though approach of putting their heads in the sand rather than to face the realities of earlier and earlier puberty in children, particularly Black children, when these children "have the hormonal imperative to reproduce" and can be readily influenced by others, not many years older, and before they can make good decisions, or even have an understanding of their sexuality and its consequences.
She supported the belief many of us have espoused for years that these are issues that need to be sensibly addressed in the schools starting at a very early age – kindergarten – because many of the kids that need it the most, don’t have the family structure to insure that they will ever be addressed at home, and those that do, may not have parents (or other caretakers) who are very good at doing it themselves for the most part due to their own lack of education and understanding. (Recently, I saw an eleven year old who was 29 ½ weeks pregnant when she arrived for her first prenatal visit. The patient had no clue what was going on, but her mother was “so excited we are going to have a girl” and all I could think about was finding the guy (probably many years older) who had gotten her pregnant and taking him off the streets).
Dr. Elders pointed to the inequity in health care services, not just among the poor and “people of color”, but in the general care and resources available to women and children. “We have the finest doctors in the world and the most advanced technology, but rank well down the list of industrialized nations” in terms of medical complications related to obesity, preterm labor, perinatal mortality, nutrition, and resources and programs to promote the health and well-being of individuals and families. Our politicians talk about, and build their careers, on rhetoric regarding the importance of these things, but do not “walk the walk.” In her own way, Dr. Elders so poignantly illustrated the same points recently hammered home by Lee Iacocca…we don’t have good leaders, we have lost our focus as a nation. We spend two billion dollars a DAY in Iraq and we can’t provide $275,000,000 a YEAR for inexpensive, cost-effective contraceptive programs. “JUST SAY NO” isn’t the answer we should be giving our children; it is the response we should be giving to the politicians on both the state and national levels when they cut programs for those least able to fight for themselves. The tears Dr. Elders gave me were based on her passion and the truth and honesty of her words and vision. She got a standing ovation.
The last speaker, Dr. Dale Hull, also provided inspiration (and wet eyes) by his personal experiences as a patient. Dr. Hull had a well-established OB/GYN practice in Utah when he was paralyzed from the neck down with a spinal cord injury suffered on the trampoline in his back yard. “True adversity is never what we planned or expected, but how we respond to that adversity makes us the people we can become.” He described his years of experience as a patient, the grief and anger, the loss of independence, the dedication of his health care providers, the support of his family and friends, his wife’s undying optimism that his body would heal, and his “miraculous” partial recovery in steps coincident with organized prayer. He emphasized the importance as physicians in providing to our patients not only our professional skills, but in keeping the door of hope open, and the power of offering “nonmedically-related touch” as an affirmation of the patient as a person. Although his recovery has gone well beyond what any of his providers ever expected (he was able to ‘carry the torch’ for a segment of the Winter Olympics in Utah) he has come to accept his limitations and no longer asks “Why or how this could happen to me?” (But he did get rid of the trampoline he had in his back yard!)
On a lighter note, I found a great place to eat tonight, if you are ever on Coronado Island across the bay from San Diego. Not far from the Hotel del Coronada on Orange Drive is the Bistro d’Asia. I started with the “Thai cucumber salad” and that was very tasty and refreshing. But, for my entrée, I got one of tonight’s ‘specials’, the “Dirty Vegas Roll,” a sushi dish made up of soft shell crab, spicy tuna, cucumber, and avocado, topped with crawfish salad, spicy aioli, and green onions, and it was ABSOLUTELY DELICIOUS…and very nice with the Chardonnay I ordered. Bon appetit et a demain!....



4 Comments:
At Tue May 08, 09:29:00 PM 2007,
Anonymous said…
I have been searching all night for some answers and am hoping I am in the correct place to ask a question. I am almost 34 years old and the mother of two healthy children who are 3 1/2 and 5. Both pregnancies were easy. My first child was born naturally, the second was taken by emergency c-section when I wouldn't progress past a 9 and his heart rate dropped significantly.
I took the birth control pill from the age of 16 until ready for children at 28. I went off the pill for three months before trying for baby #1 and was pregnant the first week of trying.
Went back on the pill after birth of first child, went off for three months and got pregnant with baby #2 within a couple of weeks of trying. Went back on the pill after birth.
My periods have always been regular with no trouble until the past year. I switched pills last year due to heavy periods and went off completely in January. We have been trying for baby #3 since then with no success. Since I went off the pill my cycles have been: February 34 days, March 23 days, April 18 days, and May 15 days. I am counting from the first day of period until the first day of next period. Each period lasts 5-8 days with VERY heavy bleeding around days 2 and 3. With no history of gyno issues, I am very concerned with the crazy cycle and am afraid of what is going on. I have an appointment with my doctor on the 16th and am hoping you can give me some reasons why this may be happening. Do you think I can get pregnant at this point? Please help. Thank you.
At Fri May 11, 11:23:00 AM 2007,
Kenneth F. Trofatter, Jr., MD, PhD said…
There are lots of different possibilities. For some reason, you now appear to be ovulating irregularly - that is what causing the irregularity of your cycles - or you are not ovulating at all (and you are having anovulatory bleeding). Either could be related to age, weight gain, or an underlying hormonal imbalance secondary to thyroid disease, hyperprolactinemia, or polcystic ovary syndrome, among others. You could have also developed uterine fibroids, polyps, or endometriosis that do not cause you to ovulate irregularly, but may cause an increase in the bleeding and discomfort of menstruation. There is a very good chance your doctor can help you get pregnant again. Good luck and thanks for reading.
At Mon May 14, 06:22:00 AM 2007,
Stephanie Montgomery said…
I am 36 years old and have a 5 year old daughter from a previous marriage. I also suffer from severe migraine headaches. For many years I tried to take "the pill", however each kind I tried, usually more as an attempt to control the migrains rather than as birth control, my migrains became more severe. Finally about 2 years ago I started using "the patch". I would stay on them for 2-3 months then go off and allow myself to go through the normal menstrual cycle. It actually did control my migrains somewhat better, however I had alot of breakthrough bleeding so I discontinued. Now I'm not having a menstrual cycle at all and it's been about 10 months since the last one. I'm also on oxycontin and diazapam. My new husband and I would like to become prenant after I stop taking the oxy, however with my periods having ceased this would be impossible anyhow. I also had a seizure (petit mal)about 7 months ago. He's in the Army and there is alot of stress in our lives right now also. We want to have a child very badly and I don't know where to start. My current doctor isn't really doing much for this issue because we are constantly dealing withthe migrain issue. Please, if you could give me advice or attempt to point me in the right direction I would be very grateful, Thank You, Stephanie
At Wed May 16, 05:39:00 AM 2007,
Kenneth F. Trofatter, Jr., MD, PhD said…
Stephanie, right now you are not having periods because you probably are not ovulating. There are many possible explanations for that. At your age, I would recommend you find a specialist in Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility to begin working with you. If you do not have access to such a specialist, at least find an experienced OB/GYN physician. You need to get off both the oxycontin and the diazapam before you get pregnant as well. There are much better drugs available now for control of migraines. See neurologist for good advice in that regard and tell him/her that whatever they put you on, you want to minimize riosk for a possible pregnancy. Start taking a prenatal vitamin now and I would also recommend supplementaion with additional folic acid. Good luck to you.
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